I was doing shopping with my mom yesterday and had some crush on the seller. Would it be rude or awkward to go back and give him my number?

[Anonymous]

It’s really not something I usually do 😅.

[DermalPunch]

Never give a guy your number unsolicited! You may be applying for the position of side piece. Go back and get him to ask you for yours. Store people don't give a crap about policy and blah blah blah. If he is interested he will ask. Oh and if he slips you his, I wouldn't bother.

[Rei13]

Life is too short to miss out on what could be a great opportunity. You should go for it. Worst case scenario is he is taken or he doesn’t call, but everyone starts as a stranger

[GreatBigCircles]

I mean, you're an adult Who cares about awkward. And why would it be rude? As long as you respect whatever response he gives, y'all good.

[Asker]

I don’t want to embarrass him…

[GreatBigCircles]

Embarrassment isn't humiliation. Plenty of guys are a bit bashful or surprised when girls show interest. Even if he isn't interested, I'm sure he'll feel nice knowing he's attractive to someone.

[Mynameisbobby]

That's not rude. You might make his day you never know

[Avicenna]

He'll probably be pleasantly surprised. And it's anything but rude to do.

[Sarahr123]

You lose them how you get them. If he’s going to be easy for you then he’ll be easy for the next girl too. In fact he’ll probably get easier because when he gets an ego boost frim a girl returning to give him her number he’ll think he can get any girl now.

[zeitgeist057]

Keep crushing men’s self esteem whenever possible, don’t ever let them feel confidence or good about themselves. Great advice /s

[nolabels]

That sounds awesome to me.

Really, it does sound awesome.

They'll love it!

You will too!

People usually regret the things that they haven't done in life more so than vice versa.

Good luck!

[nolabels]

Hmm, I wonder what was wrong with my response in order to elicit a frown from someone.

[Asker]

Nothing

[nolabels]

The frown doesn't show up on my PC, but there is a frown showing on my Android phone G@G app.

Whatever.

[Anonymous]

it would be extremely awkward. should have done it when you were there. because he could not remember you from yesterday... plus you don't know if he has a girlfriend or even likes girls lol. i'd say just take your losses. or go back there next week to actually shop, and THEN redo this whole situation.

[Meropatrick]

Why not strike a conversation with him first. Crack Some jokes and get him to feel comfortable. Then tell him that u really enjoyed talking with him and you would like to have Some coffee with him sometimes if he is interested to join. Then give him ur number. In life its not what you say but how u say it and how u use context.

[mommymommymommy]

Be careful. They're often "nice" because they need to be. Aren't women always telling us "don't fall for that waitress, because she's "just trying to make tips""

[GreatBigCircles]

Cashiers don't get tips. And as someone who has done a LOT of cashiering, there's a real difference between putting on a plastic smile for an asshole, and the smile you give to people who are friendly and treat you well.

[mommymommymommy]

@GreatBigCircles Still though, you're giving money to them

[Asker]

I understand that. There were some I found attractive but I could tell they were just nice and polite (some were probably gay too lol). Nothing happened. They were nice and I found them cute. End of the story. This time was different as we were looking really deeply and intensely into each other’s eyes…

[GreatBigCircles]

Nah, you're giving money to the store. Cashiers don't see a cent of that money. Their paychecks come from a corporate office far, far away, on checks written by people they'll never see.

[Asker]

@GreatBigCircles I didn’t buy anything. I was looking for shoes and they didn’t have the kind I wanted.

[mommymommymommy]

If you're handing them money, you're giving them money, they HAVE to be nice, to make a sale

[nolabels]

Did everyone see that last phrase from the asker:
"we were looking really deeply and intensely into each other’s eyes…"

I think that this woman means business.

I say that she should go for it.

[Asker]

Sure. But there’s nice and nice, no?

[mommymommymommy]

I think you should heed my advice hun. He's just being nice. Be careful

[Asker]

But nice people don’t usually stare at you, right?

[GreatBigCircles]

As long as you're not going in with expectations beyond possibly getting a number and a guy you can learn more about, it'll be fine.

[Asker]

@GreatBigCircles As I said I don’t do that usually. I just think there was some kind of connection. If he doesn’t want to contact me, I wouldn’t be mad or anything.

[GreatBigCircles]

Then go for it. Oh, and pick up a donut. It's always time for a donut when you're at the grocery store.

[Asker]

@GreatBigCircles It wasn’t at the grocery store lol

[nolabels]

@GreatBigCircles Shoe store.

[GreatBigCircles]

@nolabels man I really need to go to bed, 4am is too alte for me. woof.

[nolabels]

@GreatBigCircles
ROWWWWWOOOOHHHHHHHH!!!

[GreatBigCircles]

@nolabels gib scoobi snacc

[Asker]

@GreatBigCircles He actually told me more than I needed. I really think we “clicked”.

[molonski2]

I think its achievable , just think of a nice line , keep it obvious and give him the number , the reaction will be interesting..

[piblo99]

Not even a little bit awkward or rude. That just sounds cute I would love for a girl to initiate.

[inhua]

3 seconds is all it takes for a girl to have a crush on a guy

[zeitgeist057]

Same for the reverse. Sometimes someone just hits you in the feels

[Asker]

Hmmm… 5 lol

[Vikkrram]

Why it would be rude? Yes kinda awkward it can be but if you like him then yes it's 100% right to show them that you have crush on him.

[kellytheman]

Nah just go up to him and maybe buy something else and tell him you thought he was cute and hand him your number during the transaction. Maybe be smooth with hit it write it on it a credit card slip or dollar bill.

[boggboss]

Might be awkward depending on how u do it and how he takes it but it wouldn't be ruse

[boggboss]

Rude*

[JSmuve]

It's not rude but it'll definitely be awkward because you're essentially putting him on the spot. Imagine if the roles were reversed...

[Asker]

How am I putting him on the spot?

[AdithyaR]

I've normally heard that it's not advisable to flirt with or ask out someone who's in a customer service oriented job.
So I'm not entirely sure if it's appropriate.

[JesseP1nk]

On the neutral ground - sure, do as you wish. But on this circumstances he MUST be polite to you and if he says no then you may file a complaint about something (he does not know if you are crazy or not) and its his ass that gets fired.

[sheikalana]

Not rude but I wouldn't go back just to give him my number. I would give him my number if by chance I happened to pass by the store.

[EmmaMary]

None whatsoever... Nothing Ventured Nothing Gained... Good luck. 🤞

[Anonymous]

You're not gonna do that lol.
It's fun to pretend though, isn't it

[RavVid]

You could just slip him a card with your number and say 'up to you' and walk on.

[Anonymous]

Nope! Do it. I’ve done it before.

Who cares. You’ll never see that person again so f-k it

[MementoMori777]

awkward it might depending on how you behave, rude, not at all

[OddBeMe]

I would say never hit on someone at work, especially retail/waiters etc…but this doesn’t happen to guys much. So I don’t want to cock block him. Do it girl friend!

[Anonymous]

Was there any sign at all that he could be into you too? Personally i wouldn't advice doing it but if it feels right then you do you.

[Asker]

Intuition

[annabananna]

It won’t hurt and even if he isn’t interested you’d probably flatter him and make his day.

[Surely]

Heck no! Go back and do some “shopping “ and flirting. Then ask if he has a girlfriend and give him your number if he isn’t attached.

[Shy_Steve]

Definitely, Why not?

There is no legitimate reason why you can't, Unless your Married or have a Boyfriend.

[Jamie05rhs]

You have no idea how many times I've been tempted to do this. (But I never have.)

[RyanK9b]

Oh yes ffs do that. Thats something great for a guy

[Emmy87]

Don’t, I think if he liked u he could show u that he does

[SeanMarkert]

Honestly love is love. Let it make the choice for you if you really liked him then he'll yeah go back it's all up to you!

[GarciaFiona]

男人应该主动，可以向对方索要联系方式，如果对方也对你有好感，那么也会同意你，如果你反感或者对你不感兴趣，那么就会拒绝你

[Anonymous]

Go back and make some small talk and see how that goes before doing anything further.

[lightbulb27]

no, you only live once.

[Flower7]

That seems like it would be awkward.

[sheenagwapa]

if you have that kind of bravery then go 😂

[alice55]

definitely awkward

[zebronics]

Yes! Are you a trash or what!

[Asker]

Loooool

[Nahid1707]

What exactly happened?

[Asker]

What do you mean?

[Nahid1707]

How did you see the seller? Did you talk to him or her?

[boobliker]

not at all he love it!

[007kingifrit]

no not at all you can always do this

[ValeriusDover]

Only one way to find out.

[zagor]

Maybe strike up a convo first.

[EaterPeter]

Not rude but don't do

[driven159]

No go back you never know how it will turn out.

[baseball_del_tuono]

Not at all do it

[LustForLife_xuxu]

How did it go? Have you done it yet?

[Asker]

I’ve been to the shop yesterday and today but he wasn’t there… 🤷‍♀️

[LustForLife_xuxu]

Oh alr well update us

[Abdulwahh]

Why did you crush him in pieces

[Asker]

What?

[Luvnydotrspus]

Can I get your number to flirt?

[SnowedIn]

Do it! Not awkward!

[Anonymous]

Absolute girl shoot your shot

[elizamichale1]

Not at all honey

[Anonymous]

I think u can do it more gentel

[Asker]

How?

[Opinion Owner]

So what was the shop for?
I mean what things u bought

[Asker]

I wanted to buy converse shoes but they didn’t have any.

[Opinion Owner]

May u follow me?
If u dont mind
To make the advice easier lol

[Opinion Owner]

I think i have some tricks to let him know gentlt

[Asker]

Why would it be easier?

[Opinion Owner]

To ask u more and think with u which one would be better

[Opinion Owner]

I think dm easier than here 😅

[Asker]

It’s ok. We can talk about it here lol.

[Opinion Owner]

So tell me more
What this shop sell
And did u buy anything or not yet

[Asker]

The shop sells clothes and shoes. And I didn’t buy anything. I went to the shop today but he wasn’t there…

[Opinion Owner]

Then go again if u find him ask for smth not there then say ohh when it will come? May i take ur num.

[Asker]

And that’s better this way?

[Opinion Owner]

Sure..

[Twalli]

Not really

[In_Trance]

cringe

[briigantexx]

Nope

[whistlingwh0res]

Yes do it