Under what circumstances would you approach a man?

[jwmiller95]

Must he be devilishly handsome or you notice that he's been checking you out?

[Ez-Bri-Z_v2]

That's tough because I base a lot of my interest on his personality and sense of humor before I have interest, but if I didn't have that available I suppose if I'm attracted to him physically I might, but chances are I'd wait for him to approach me to see if he has interest.

[jwmiller95]

Would he have to be blatantly obvious that he wants you?

[Ez-Bri-Z_v2]

Yeah kinda. I'm kinda dense at times when people are flirting with me

[jwmiller95]

I'm very dense! As a man, I'm supposed to know when to approach and see the signs that women lay out for me which is hard because it's never direct

[Ez-Bri-Z_v2]

Well I can put off hints well enough but if I'm not actively looking for it then it's harder to spot

[jwmiller95]

Would you be uncomfortable if a man approached you and you weren't really ready?

[Ez-Bri-Z_v2]

Maybe? It would still go pretty smoothly though if he has a good sense of humor.

[jwmiller95]

Funny how? Lol would a straightforward compliment be acceptable like " you look very pretty"?

[Ez-Bri-Z_v2]

Probably not because I have low self esteem so I wouldn't believe him. If he can make me laugh with a cheesy but good pickup line or just a silly joke, I'd probably respond well to that

[jwmiller95]

Well how do you know if they think you're pretty or not? Can't go wrong though if they make you laugh though. I imagine some girls feel tired of hearing the same compliments from strangers

[Ez-Bri-Z_v2]

I dont need to know if they think I'm pretty or not. I don't believe anyone when they say it about me.

Humor though goes a long way and can be a great cold opener for getting to know someone. It's a fine line though from being funny and interesting or being corny and unfunny.

[jwmiller95]

What advice could you give to someone who comes off as awkward when they're trying to be funny or just not funny at all? 😆😅

[Ez-Bri-Z_v2]

Just be genuine then. If you come off fake or as a player then chances are you are gonna strike out. Honesty is also nice just don't be creepy about it

[jwmiller95]

Is it only creepy when someone unattractive hits on you?

[Ez-Bri-Z_v2]

Nah just if I look uncomfortable with compliments and they continue with them for one.

[mandyfire98]

It's a mixture of liking his vibe and looks and him showing some interest.

[jwmiller95]

Hmm vibe. I see that word so much but to you what does having a good vibe mean?

[mandyfire98]

It's an overall feeling. So a mixture of his attitude, his grooming, how he dresses, how he talks, what he says. It's a mixture of all of it. If I click with most of his vibe I'll click with him or her.

[jwmiller95]

Is it easier to click with girls or guys when you're out?

[mandyfire98]

It's easier to approach women but I get approached more by men.