How do I stop crushing on man from work?

[Anonymous]

I'm a cleaning lady at my side job and there is a man he is very attractive to me and since the day I started working there he started flirting with me but he is married and i'm in a relationship too but been having lots of downs in my relationship lately sometimes my partner said and did things that hurt me deeply and he has lack of understanding sometimes like yesterday. So this man at work sometimes smiles at me when i want clean his table, he said one time when we go downstairs hope I dont fall in your arms, or one time when we were in the kitchen he was baking doing the dough and said get on the table i will massage you but of course i said no because i respect my relationship amd still love my partner deepy and respect his marriage too now almost 2 week he is been on vacation i miss him a lot what should i do with these feeling? I try focus on work but he is on my mind amd it doesn't help his coworker mention his name all the time

[SexyBrunetteNY]

When it comes to attraction, married or not married, we as women can be attracted to a married man. It's normal, but it doesn't mean that you have to ACT on it. Sadly, most guys will take the chance and cheat so where it goes will be up to you. But don't forget, if he cheats with you, he'll cheat on you.

[Beeworld]

I don't mean to sound rude, but you need honor. If he's an idiot who doesn't think about the consequences, you think about them. Do his wife and kids really deserve to go through this?

[Asker]

He has no kids only wife. But I saw her page on IG and Facebook she really, really loves him. She has on all social media photo of them together as profile picture and always talks in her stories how much she love him

[Beeworld]

Damn, you deserve better than this guy. I understand that feelings are difficult, but I'm sure you'll find better men.

[Huntingnfishin]

Honestly I don't see a problem with crushing/flirting. (Karens will disagree). But eventually things will fizzle on their own, they always do. There's a big step between actually having an affair and just flirty words between you

[BigDog1989]

Go out. Lol. we tend to fall for people we're not supposed to, when we don't have a social life, outside of work

[karekaaaa]

Ohhh he catched ur feelings
I think he will flirt again when he is back

[Asker]

Lol 🤣 the last thing he talked about was my privates. I wore ripped pants and he said it's exactly torn near your private 🤣🤣

[karekaaaa]

So will u share with him sexualty or?

[Anonymous]

Text him n ask when he is coming back?
I want to give you blowjob.

[Asker]

LMAO 🤣I dont have his number

[Opinion Owner]

Trust me girl i was in same situation...
And than we had sex n sex was fucking awesome...

[Asker]

Tell the whole story. Im all ear

[Opinion Owner]

Ah na not here 😂