There's this guy at work whose 40 years old but looks a lot younger like early 30s.
We started talking because I had to start working with him often. He's very strange at times and acts abit immature and simple for his age. He gets very defensive and angry over nothing I'm used to unpractical people unfortunately so I know how to handle people like him well.
I told him I was buying a house with my boyfriend soon and he mentioned he's buying a house with his girlfriend so we had that in common to talk about. He then became very clingy around me especially after he told me he couldn't have children and but I was the only person he'd ever told that.
I didn't realise I wasn't the only person who thought he was strange and creepy. He's always making strange, inappropriate jokes thar aren't funny and he's always suggesting I date this special needs guy at our work even though he knows I have a boyfriend and he doesn't shut up about this special needs guy at work when his guy is actually probably more normal then him.
The other day I was left in charge of managing the whole of unit 2 warehouse and keeping it looking nice as the big boss was coming to visit. I had 3 other people with me I had jordan down lane 8 and this creepy guy and Andy in lane 9.
Creepy guy was totally useless and I had to do pretty much everything. I kept trying to go help jordan but creepy guy kept begging me to stay and help and wouldn't let me leave.
Eventually Richard from unit 1 tried to call me over but creepy guy told him no and that he needed my help so they got my friend Anna to come get me.
She grabbed me and told me to run whilst he wasn't looking.
Once I got in unit one everyone was laughing and asking if I was okay. Little did I know. Its known that this guy is strange and they'd all picked up on his behaviour around me so we're trying to get me away from him.
He soon followed me and he wouldn't stop sucking up to me
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Kind of sounds like the beginnings of a serious problem to me. I'd file a complaint with your boss or HR.
Just don't talk to him and ignoring him
That won't cause drama
Last guy I did that too tried running me down and ruining my reputation at work to the point I got him fired for harassment and that was only 2 weeks ago
Nup if you don't want to talk to someone in work this is your. Opinion.
They paying to u for work or talking to co-workers
Just be honest and tell him to leave him alone
take him out back and kick his ass
Is this love?