Girls, What would make a Shy Guy Attractive or Approachable if you didn't know him?

[Anonymous]

[HappyWoman34]

Kindness, generosity, good listener, sense of humour, courage, intelligence.

[Asker]

You just described just about every Single Shy Guy, But most of them aren't getting Girls or getting laid.

[HappyWoman34]

Aren’t they? Well, women do want good guys-with bad streaks.

[Asker]

Well that doesn't include Shy Guys at all.

Does it.

[HappyWoman34]

It can

[HappyWoman34]

The only issue I have with shy guys is some won’t make a move. Shy and weak are too different things. I don’t like weak men.

[HappyWoman34]

I’m a really strong woman, so it’s a turn on when a guy goes for who he wants without asking (with kissing)

[Asker]

Yes, That's fair enough.

That's what most Women want anyway, Those type of are a lot more likely to be Cheaters than an Average Shy Guy, So most of you Girls are increase your risk of getting Cheated on etc.

Of course not every Confident Guy cheats and Shy Guys definitely capable of Cheating, It's just that your increasing the risk when you should be trying to decrease the risk of getting Cheated on etc.

[HappyWoman34]

No I’m not. I know what’s out there and I’m currently talking to a few guys. One is a shy, nerdy type and he’s amazing. The other is kind and intelligent and also handsome, but that’s not why I like him. They’re both very good men. I’m still deciding, as are they.

[HappyWoman34]

In my youth, I had to have all the hottest men. But I think I was pretty silly back then. Now, I hit on whomever has a personality that I like. I have to be at least a bit attracted to them. If I wasn’t, I’d be looking for a pet rather than a partner.

[Asker]

So you want a Guy who is going to make the first move then, Or would you happily ask out a Guy you like with a great Personality?

[HappyWoman34]

Both.

[HappyWoman34]

Usually I’m the one making the first moves.

[Asker]

Would you rather the Guy make the first move?

[HappyWoman34]

Honestly, yes, but most men won’t with me. I think either I’m initially not their type physically, or I intimidate or overwhelm them by being so full on and bubbly.

[HappyWoman34]

So I had two choices.. be the mildly pretty lady and live alone forever a completely untouched virgin with my pet dog, or to be brave and make some moves.

[HappyWoman34]

What about yourself? Do you prefer making the first move or being approached by women?

[Asker]

Well, Because I'm Shy I would prefer for her to make the first move.

[HappyWoman34]

Fair enough. Just be aware that if you don’t take opportunities yourself, you might miss out.

[Asker]

I figured that.

That's why I'm still Single.

[HappyWoman34]

Possibly.

[Anemone978]

Nothing.. unless he was amazingly hot.. lol

[Anonymous]

Nothing. I have no time for that.

[Asker]

So you want to be single for the rest of your life then?