I do get confused especially if there is an lifestyle difference
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Thankyou! This is exactly what i mean, he's a dr and a footballer, god knows what he sees in me
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He probably sees way more prettier girls everyday, i dont usually get guy s flirting with me, to the point people who know me assume im over reacting
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No its only early days but his actions so far r making me confused n freaked out, i mean he talks to this girl (there's like a gap between them n my cousin said theyre not going out) n its made me paranoid he must b using me, it makes no sense y else he would b staring
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Na im single were just flirting atm, but it's pretty intense 😂
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I've been there before where guys have been flirting but did not ask me out
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We only c each other once a month, i wouldn't have been fussed if he hadn't started 😂 he's slightly different from the guys I've liked before which is why im confused.
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In my head im early 20s, I've had a lot of health issues and so i feel like my lifes only getting started n where im going out more n seeing whats out there, every guy whos flirted with me has been different so my lack of experience make s me confused
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Don't have his no, im trying to find out but its difficult when he's not on any socials
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I tried tried find ing out as soon as he started flirting, but my cousins didn't know, even my other cousin whos known him since birth doesn't know
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I've never been with anyone, u can check thro my profile to see my history if u want😂(got a cold atm)
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😂He started coming to play cards about less than a yr ago, i dont generally ask people for their names so i had no idea who he was, i assumed he was some randomer, when he started flirting i asked my cousin if she knew who he was, and when she said his name i was like oh shit, i know that last name, its on my family tree😂😂😂so i asked if we were related first cos that would be creepy 😂but he's not thankfully.
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Its all on my profile too much to go through lol
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Pretty much, il try n get him alone next month hopefully my flights not delayed coming home
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Well in 2 weeks time, i say nxt month cos the events only on once a month
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Hey, I just saw your profile. What is wrong with you? You seem so unlucky in relationship. And no, I didn't find what health condition you have. Can you please tell me what is the matter?
You seem interesting to talk and probably taken by now 😅. Why is it sweet girls are always alone like you - +1 y
Ik, sometimes i get a good thing going but i self sabotage cos i dont understand it, im trying not to do that with this current guy, he seems too sweet. I have tinnitus since 2012 n now I've got dizzy spells (hoping its temporary) i get cold a lot v easily which means i get a lot of pain in my hands n feet, i dont have great speech n a lot of anxiety. Just not enough support from people as they assume im lazy (they dont know how bad it is living with T)
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I think I understand. You are probably suffering from neuropathy. It can happen)). And I think you are a sweet girl. How do you sabotage your relationships? Do you ghost guys because if you do then you are up to God to fix because it means you cut off yourself but if you are just timid then you should have hope too.
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As i said I've never been with anyone, it doesn't go past the flirting stage, i dont really wanna go in to the last guy where i got my heart broken, there's a bunch of qs about that on my profile from last yr. I dont think I've been ready to be with anyone till just after covid, being forced to be stuck in the house changed my life, i knew i had to get out there n start living /meeting people or if it happened again i dont think i could deal with it
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Oh I think I answered some of those. Shocks you should have asked if anyone was single here )). And yeah good luck with this guy. Don't be afraid to flaunt your personality.
Just to remind you, you are really nice girl to talk to. You don't have to feel insecure )), you are really going to get this guy but I hope he doesn't hurt you like the rest.
In case you do get left hanging don't let it get to you. You can find a really nice guy 😀 - +1 y
Ye my cousin doesn't think he would be doing this on purpose with that intent, im kinda protected this way if he ghosts me once he finds out who i am well then we know what his game was but if he carries on acting interested then he must b genuine
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Thanks, i do try but my anxiety causes me to do a lot of bad things which im working on
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Ye dont have any lol anytime i try to make any people just dont attempt to meet up
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If he's using me, and he realizes his family know me, he won't want them knowing he had bad intentions
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Its much easier to talk to someone online who replies, than it is in person with my speech
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Ohh, I understand, yes that's good that is good way. But you are really a good girl. As you said you are with no one. And your intentions are pure. I am also virgin 😅 believe it or not. You don't have to worry about the guy. He is a doctor and he will like you.
I don't care if you have any tinnitus or diseases. If someone loves you they do it regardless of your disadvantages. If they don't then they will make the lamest excuses - +1 y
Ye he knows im vulnerable. Im leaning towards him feeling something for me when he stroked my hand and like me didn't expect to like me. Ill likely only find someone by accident 😂
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Bless u, i wish even my family would see it that way, so many r so judgmental
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😅 hey I think your family doesn't want you to be hurt. I know I would be overprotective if you were blood related to me too. I think I want to see how the story unfolds in 2 weeks )). Do keep us updated please 😀. And bless you too. Be confident 💪, some day after certain age everyone contracts some of the diseases and if someone left you just out of that (excluding STDs) then it's their fault
By the way, where do you work to find such a gentleman? - +1 y
Lol i dont work:) I've only ever had 1 job for 2 months
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+1 yI never thought of that but yeah I suppose I do
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Nope I am never confused about how I feel when it comes to a woman. I do not have a "type". Thats just foolish. I mean there are women you meet and all you want to do is bang them, because honestly that is all there are good for and looking for. Then there are the ones, that you know sex is not good enough by itself that you need or want more.
But they come in all shapes and sizes and are all unique and special in their own ways, and when that something special hits you... all the rest goes out the window.
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+1 y.. you can have a type. But when it comes to sexual attraction.. their is something else , something we can't control.
Chemicals. Chemicals made by the human body to attract a possible partner. You can run from it but you can't hide 😃
Sometimes you see impossible connections. And you wonder why they are together..
Well it must but chemical.. who knows.. 🤭
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+1 yIndeed: I would be confused if I liked someone who isn't my usual type.
It's just... that doesn't happen.
My ''type'' is a subconscious thing, not something I ''designed'' in my head.
And I am aware of the details (slender, dark haired, smart, funny, horny)
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+1 yNot really. I don't put myself or the people I'm attracted to in a restricted box.
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+1 yNo. There are some commonalities in women I'm attracted to but over the years the taste has changed, life changes you and your taste may change with it.
00 ReplyThat rarely happens with me, but I attract a lot of people who are very different from me.. sometimes they're like an opposite person!.. And it's hella confusing.. Especially when I sometimes like them back lol
00 Reply1K opinions shared on Flirting topic. No I understand types are not the start and end of attraction
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Its just I've always gone for the same type of face yet atm i like someone whos slightly different n its freaking me out
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Im v picky 😂
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Maybe, but i wasn't like this with this guy before he started flirting. I've got boards on my Pinterest of famous guys i like n theyre all pretty much the same
457 opinions shared on Flirting topic. I usually try not to think about it. I dated somebody who was the polar opposite of all the girls I ever dated. I looked at it as an experiment.
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+1 yI used to. I’ve started to realize that I’m attracted to specific traits now, now just certain people. Like I love girls who are animal lovers. Someone who would run out and rescue a puppy from a road because it just felt right.
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+1 yThat has never happened. I only ask out my types.
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Anonymous(45 Plus)+1 yno not really, my type is a chick with a vaginahole.
its not rocket surgery01 Reply545 opinions shared on Flirting topic. Why would that be confusing?
00 ReplyI don't really have a type like that
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+1 yThats not a thing for me.
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+1 yThat's never happened to me so I don't know
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+1 yNo, I don't categorize people usually
00 Reply500 opinions shared on Flirting topic. don't think so
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+1 yNope
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