How do I hint to my gay friend that I have a crush on her?

[Anonymous]

My friend took me out for my bday and I told her I wanted her to flirt with me ( we’re both bi and had been drinking ) and she said she hadn’t flirted before bc she tried to respect my relationship. Then she quickly said “bet” and said I was so fucking pretty and that my laugh was really cute. After that night she said flirting with friends was something she did and we agreed to be friendly. We started joking about how to pronounce a word and I called her out for mispronouncing and she stared into my eyes and kept smirking. I looked away. Then I kicked her out to go home because she kept lingering and staring while we were teasing each other.
Last week she kept making dirty jokes and was like “I have a small mouth” then she laughed and said she was being crass. Also I told her my ex texted me and invited me over and she kept insisting he wanted to try something with me. She was like “he wants to invite you over to watch movies. But he wants to make a movie with you.”
When I broke up with my boyfriend she brought alcohol over but she invited another one of our work friends. As she was leaving and kind of drunk I told her that my dog loved my boyfriend and she was like “well now he has me”.
Last week she kept saying her knee hurt and kept complaining. I jokingly got annoyed and asked what she wanted me to do and she was like “I want you to fix it” ( her knee). I joked I might accidentally flash people and said happy birthday and she said “early birthday gift for me” and laughed. Also we accidentally touched hands and she was like “I can’t believe our hands just touched” our other friend got uncomfortable and my friend implied that she was only joking after our friend said she was uncomfortable. Today was a work event and I joked how I should invite my ex because he’s Latin and we had Latin night. She made a rude face and got quiet and was like “you’re about to get got” then laughed and I said “what” then she said was like “clocked”. Why does she act like this?

[laurieluvsit]

That's an easy one.

Ask her a 3rd person question like..."I had a girl that I am good friends with tell me she has a crush on me, what should I say to her?"

Then wait and see how she reacts. If she acts negative to it then back off for now. But if she acts positive about it, you can then say "What if I told you that I have a crush on you?"

You get the idea.

There are even ways to deal with straight girlfriends that you get the hots for :)

Good luck!

[Asker]

Do you think she’s interested?

[laurieluvsit]

Yes, she sounds very open minded.

[johnnydeeeep]

You're not a playa, you just crush aloooot... 🖤🏴‍☠️🖤

[johnnydeeeep]

You just embodies flawlessly the dumb girl routine. How you just explained that you initiated flirting into your relationship with your lesbian friend and now pretend then toy with her feelings as if they are unimportant because a gar that you initiated became uncomfortable for you, and you are tl much of a coward to acknowledge as much, nevermind the reason it has become uncomfortable for you, but instead of telling her fourthright you were in over your head and needed to slow thongs down to re-assess, you instead make jabs at her feeling for you bringing up your ex everytime you begin feeling uncomfortable from what you instigated, now you play dumb pretending not to understand why she is frustrated with your callous so sociopathic tendencies... Making yourself out to be the victim. You are literally a prime and glaring example of why the unfair stereotype that woman manipulative, heartless and trifling exists for all woman. If no one has told you today you suck at life.

[Asker]

Huh?

[OneTrueYou]

Okay, I do not mean for this to be rude, but I am assuming based on the information that you wrote that you are a grown woman. It is clear that the gay friend you have is flirting with you and trying to get you to be in a relationship with her and is acting offended about anyone else that might be having that position in your life.

[AviatorTom]

You've already dropped enough hints. Next time you're alone and in private, kiss her... and see what happens from there.

[jamesgoldman]

Sounds like you've done plenty of hinting

I've been in 2 relationships albeit hetero and they started with a kiss on the first and a blowjob on the second, I'd recommend the former option

[love_conquers_lust]

You’ve already hinted. Tread carefully if you’re in a relationship, those bounds are being pushed.

[Asker]

Not in a relationship anymore.

[love_conquers_lust]

I’m not a preacher. The Bible is pretty clear that the practice, the directive of homosexuality is a sin. Some modern interpretations have claimed that applies only to heterosexuals engaging with homosexuals. Having same sex feelings is NOT a sin. These feelings you are having are not sins. I like girls with blue eyes, is it a sin to like them when guys have them too?

Remember that God loves all his creations, created in his image, that means you. The love is unconditional and he will forgive your transgressions if you repent. Love thy neighbor. It’s also why Jesus said after stopping stones from being cast at the prostitute that he offered his hand, lifted her up, and said go forth and sin no more. If you do sin, then you must take up your cross to find salvation. You have the choice.

Also bear in mind that the Pope said homosexuality is NOT a crime, despite what other religions might say.

We’re wonderful messes.

[RedInnocent68]

Sounds like you already have… 😉 seems like you’re close enough that next time you’re out together you could just start touching her. She’ll get the hint 😂

[BlissfullyCurSed]

tell hear blatantly that you wanna flick her pussy.

[BlissfullyCurSed]

*her

[OnlyMeee]

Play a game of drunken truth or dare, always a good icebreaker, especially for the dares. See how it goes.

[Wise4myage]

She may already know, but just be honest with her. Your bi, so that helps.

[Anonymous]

You just take her hand in yours watching a sunset and say nothing just let her feel, let things happen, things that come from. the soul, I wish so much I was a woman and a lesbian but I am not that lucky

[Anonymous]

Why do women do this shit? Why "hint" when you can just be direct?

[aceleon]

She likes you

[ironmidget]

Give her the eyes with a shy smile.

[msc545]

Definitely kiss her.

[grega239]

With Scissors🤣🤣🤣

[Kayla45]

Kiss her!! ^^

[Asker]

How should I?

[shades777]

you dont hint, you tell and wait for the results

[BLP11520]

She wants you from reading this

[SUMAIREBRAHIM]

😂😂😂😂