This guy and I have been flirting over text. Yet, I fear that I've been too available. How can I try and help him to want to text me first more?

[Amarasimmons7]

[BoopBoopBeep]

Why do you want to play that game? If you enjoy talking to him then keep doing what you're doing. Suddenly change pattern of life and he may just decide F it, guess she's not into me anymore. Maybe he already wants to text more he just has things going on. Life gets in the way. I don't want to text anyone that is going to stop texting just to see how long I take. When I text somebody, they get back to me when they get back to me. If time was of the essence I would have called.

[HiveBee]

He might not because he probably was told to never text a girl first or else she will lose interest.

It's all silly shit. The only real choice is to be honest and tell the truth.

But everyone wants to guarantee success and manipulate the situation and hope the person falls for us.

We think we have to obey all these stupid rules in order to get what we want.

[Unknown8264]

Once I forced myself not to be online on any of my social media accounts / whatsapp for few hours
Then I replied to his texts, then he asked if I am alright? I told him yeah why? He said because you haven’t been online for a long time. So he noticed which means he passed the test. Later on I found out he was creep

[Bethany22]

Just answer his texts, and don't initiate texts. Keep your texts at two lines max

[dynamicyandere]

Guys who value their time don’t get involved with these texting mind games.


If you are interested, then just be straight with him.


If you resort to these texting mind games you’re going to turn off any guy that values his time.

[dynamicyandere]

Also, if he requires you to play games to get his attention, it means he’s susceptible to manipulation and isn’t worth your time.

[AmeerX]

All the people saying to ghost him if he doesn't text you after 48 hours are so childish really. Would you be alright if he thought same about you? A man can have other things in his life that might require his immediate attention. Call him if he doesn't reply

[crystalline0909]

Stop texting him... see how long he takes to notice your absence. If he takes more than 48 hours... ghost him

[Billlewis]

Exactly -- make him come to you, and when he texts you, let him wait a while before you respond.

[nonyabeez-wax]

I would say stop messaging him and wait. If he takes more than two days, he's not that into you.

Good luck.

[provokeesmokee]

well, you can definitely ask him to initiate more. That's probably the most effective way to do it.

[Paris13]

PLay Hard to Get a Hold Of. xxoo

[Amarasimmons7]

How, exactly?

[Paris13]

Do Not be so Quick to Reply to His Text. And Wait for HIM to Do a Text NEXT After yours... xxoo

[Amarasimmons7]

Ah okay. I told him he was very handsome in one of the pics he sent me, and he laughed and said that he's not handsome. Like dude, come on, just take a compliment.

[Paris13]

lol Less Compliments. Let him Compliment you now. xxoo

[Nikki1989]

If you are texting, nothing is serious. Waste of time.

[pickles77]

It’s usually not a problem. He probably appreciates it.

[RHK36]

Women play too many games, just be straightforward. Only fuckboys like games because they play em too.

[SotiCoto]

Why are you asking how to do something you shouldn't be doing in the first place?
See, this falls under the category of things girls do that they fucking well shouldn't because it is deceitful and manipulative.

[Amarasimmons7]

Um don't come at me like that, please. Try to have a little respect in the way you say things. I just was wondering g if it's bad or good to text him first most of the time, don't get so offended

[SotiCoto]

I'm not offended. I'm chastising you.

[Amarasimmons7]

For a simple question, really.. hahap

[Naughtyboy71]

Tell him you open to any conversations , erotic ,, fantasy

[BigDadsHugeCokc]

You have to leave him wanting more you have to leave him thinking of you no matter what always keep them guessing and it will always be exciting

[sheikalana]

Stop texting him.

[Twalli]

Guys don't text unless they have something to say.

[OddBeMe]

By not answering.

Duh.