If we're not "dating", but like each other, why did she joke about "finally trying to kiss her"?

[Anonymous]

We're not dating, because, whatever reason she's giving, i dk, but, we do like each other and she'll even say the big LO word as well. I won't though, for many reasons.

However, a few months ago, we finally kissed. Never been on a date before, like i said, but, we finally did.

I told her I had a couple surprises, one being my new car, and the other something more for her, sort of, but yeah. I was going to give it to her in the car, and I did but, before we had gotten in the car, she says "is the surprise that you're going to finally try and kiss me/make a move on me (said while giggling)". Again, we already knew we like each other, she's just being flirty. I said "maybe". We went out to the car and I gave her the original surprise (id rather not say what it is, since it's a little bit private), however, before I did, i said "well, i wasn't planning on it, but, we should kiss for the first time". She smiles and says "ok, lets do it". So we did and we both sort of giggled to each other, of course since it was our first kiss, so it's always a little "silly", right?

But what doesn't make sense to me is, if she doesn't want to date, then why did she ask if that was the surprise? (especially since she'll say the LO word)

[Vikkrram]

If you both like each other and still not dating there might be two reasons you both either assuming that you like each other or else you both want to be in situationship.

[Asker]

We've told each other we do like each other. What is a situationship

[Vikkrram]

Then you both are in situationship where you both don't officially want to give name of your relationship but you both enjoys perks of being in a relationship.

[Asker]

But we're not in a relationship

[Vikkrram]

That's what I mean

[Asker]

How can you enjoy the perks of a relationship, if you're not in a relationship

[Vikkrram]

Look sometimes people don't want to labelled their relation, so basically they keep meetings with each other they keep hanging out with each other but they don't want to give name to this relation.

[Asker]

But we're not even dating

[Vikkrram]

Buddy why you don't understand that's what I am saying that if you both were dating so that itself means that you both are in relationship and look each other as a potential partner but here you are doing all those things and like each other but still don't want to date or give your relationship a name...

[Asker]

why?

[Vikkrram]

Ask this question from her how I can give you the answer of this question?