Kissing with tongues on second and third date... but is she interested?

[Tomboy12]

Hi all!

Myself and this girl I met a week ago online have been dating for a week, and been on three dates in about 6 days, and we both agree that we've had a great/lovely time on all occasions.

On the second date, towards the end, I went in for the kiss at a romantic, quiet spot, and we made out quite passionately for about 30 mins straight (no exaggeration). After that we cuddled and held hands before heading back.

Third date was quite similar, although this time even more so, with tongues and generally more neck kissing, etc. She even said something like 'I really like kissing you' at one point. That along with the fact that we had a great time together throughout the entire day.

So what do you guys think? Does this bode well? We don't text much in between dates, except to organise the next one, but then again I work 9-5 most days and she has college work/lectures to be doing.

Any help, much appreciated :)

[kiekie2915]

I think you guys ginuenly might have something. If you guys are having wonderful times in between the make-out sessions she obviously enjoys your presence in general. I think the best option is to talk to her about it or maybe try to text her more?

[Luciferforyou]

I've kissed a girl whom I've spoken to online for like 3 days and we've met the fourth day and kissed the fifth so, as long as she's responding well to your touch and doesn't mind getting close to you, you should go for it

[Tomboy12]

Sounds like my situation too. The issue i have is that she doesn't text me much at all, or is quite slow in getting back to me, and so I panic that after each date, she's changed her mind, but I'm starting to think that it's just her personal thing.

I'm a big overthinker and worrier. Like for example, this morning I texted her saying 'Hey, how's it going' and it's been just over an hour and no response, even though she's been online on Facebook. This is the kind of thing I should stop.

[Luciferforyou]

You need to boost up your texting game, there are literally a 100 hundred guys texting her how's it going, what makes you different? What makes her want to reply to you? Think about it

[Tomboy12]

Yeah but we’re past the ice breaking stage now where you need to write something witty to grab her attention. We’ve been on three dates and know a lot about each other, so this morning’s message was just something to enter a conversation about organising the next date

[Luciferforyou]

Don't lose the spark man, even though you know each other you still gotta flirt like the first day, like she's still as important to you as she was

[Tomboy12]

Oh yeah I do that, I do flirt a lot when we're face to face. Just not so much over text

[lilaqua]

If she's sticking her tongue down her throat than she likes you

[lilaqua]

shit I mean your throat

[Tomboy12]

I mean I think that too. I'm just trying to figure out if it's a good indicator of whether there'll be a fourth date?

[lilaqua]

yes, if she fucks you then you're set

[Tomboy12]

Haha well I suppose that would be a sure indicator, but i'm happy to take it at her pace xD

So in terms of kissing, etc, I should be optimistic about the future because of the French kissing that happened last time?

[lilaqua]

look unless you really fuck up at this point like sleep with a sheep or something, she'll still like you. Are you just looking for attention?

[Tomboy12]

Okay cool xD

Well i'm not after a load of attention from her, like constantly everyday, but she doesn't text me at all in between the dates we've had so far, so I'm not really sure what she thinks.

[gogoook]

Make sure she is not a bitch, otherwise have fun

[Tomboy12]

Nah she's definitely not that, at least not to my knowledge so far on the dates. I'm just trying to see whether the whole kissing thing is a good sign, because I imagine most girls don't do that to any guy (at least when sober, anyway). She doesn't appear the slutty time at all.

[gogoook]

Of course its a good sign, just make sure she didn't did that 100 times