Guys and girls, what do you think actual flirting is? Like what defines flirting for you?

[hbkfan]

I'm asking because one time I just said hi to someone you know just to be friendly and they thought I was hitting on them

[colaman94]

Maybe she likes you, anyways I for one sometimes think if a woman goes out of their way and my age generation, my sort of interested woman, then I'd either dismiss it as being friendly or if a woman was talking to me and so on, surely I'd pick up "she likes me" no different than a woman probably "usually knowing" when a man is either interested or keen e. g. senses the vibes 😀

[colaman94]

A woman asked me "how are you" to me once in a foreign language that I learned later on, and I do wonder if she was gauging information for attraction judgement lol. You know. Fishing for info. Lol. I told her I don't speak and so after that, seemed to have no interest in me. There ya go. Was it a flirt? I'll never quite know, ha!

[colaman94]

I was sensing vibes though. As "more than just friendly asking." Even if she was looking away while saying it to her task she was doing. I mean I just thought it seemed 👀 different. Ah well. I ask people hi and hello all the time. Yet sometimes "it's the way". You know. It's the way they're saying, vibe-ing 😈👿

[coachTanthony]

Saying hello is obviously not flirting but saying hello, getting close to them, continuing the conversation following up with more questions could be looked at as flirting.

[DizzyDesii]

In person, I pay attention to the smile, the body language and the wording. Online i pay attention to the wording, how often we talk and if they feel a bit pushy

[WhitneySnow]

Light talking with the intent of feeling out the other person as a possible romantic partner (or sexual partner, though I never used it just for that)

[SoJust]

Getting to know each other very well should be a real friendship, not in line with any interests between you, your basis should be a real friendship, everyone who defines it really becomes lovers with that person, becomes friends, shares everything with him, they should always be Decently side by side throughout life.

[Nikki1989]

Most of the time there is no flirting, just friendly banter. Men are notorious for confusing the two.

[Yannae]

I actively try to get them to like me so she agrees to be in a relationship with me and let her know that this is my intention.

[sparklycoconut]

i dont really know.