What is flirt in your opinion?, what is the difference between flirting and being nice? what is the purpose of flirting in the future?

[Anonymous]

What are you looking forward when you flirt with someone

[serious]

This is another common question on this site.

There are many differences but according to me some of the most notable differences are:

1. The intention and the expectation of the final outcome. That means flirting definitely has an ulterior motive but they are mostly good only. For ex it can simply be to get some appreciation and attention from the opposite gender or it can be to get the opposite gender to actually like them (the one who is flirting).

On the other hand being nice does not have any motive behind it whatsoever. The person is being nice because they are like that with everyone and that is their nature, their character.

2. In my view, being nice is something that is very natural and for many people it will come naturally without much effort. However, flirting on the other hand is a cautious action and requires skill and effort. Hence flirting is very much intentional

3. Being nice is just being themselves but flirting on the other hand requires one to do something that is out of their comfort zone and only some people can do this well.

There are more differences but according to me these are the key points.

As for me I never flirt. Never means never.

[serious]

Thanks for the MHO

[ChicoFromThe305]

I don't flirt for two reasons, once I start I won't be able to stop so there's no putting that flirtatious spirit back in the bottle and second, the woman can keep her pants dry, it's beneficial to both lol

[IslaTheWitch]

For me, flirting is a way of getting to know someone better. It's done in a funny way that could also be a bit erotic. Flirting doesn't involve physical contact except for semi-coincidental hand or forearm brushes.

Being nice is being nice. It's a way people treat others without any additional goal in mind.

[Gent207-2]

Intention and means

There are certain lines you don't cross if you are just helping

[Anonymous]

I like how it opens up things intimately flirting is really an invitation to be close in my opinion but usually in a playful manner