Has anyone else had a boss/teacher flirt with/hit on them?

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I have a couple times

Texaskid1 · Accepted Answer

On several occasion I have had female managers send some heavy flirting signals my way.

I am not Brad Pit but at 6'1'" and I do hit the gym 2-3 times a week and I watch my weight so eventually so women will like what they see. I always appreciate the ego boost... and that's it. I do not respond. Any flirting or hints etc and I hard ignore that shit.

I go to work to do the job they pay me to do. At work I do not flirt with or try to get into anyone's panties. There are quiet few attractive women in the company I work for and I stay the fuck away from all of them unless it is a work related issue. Work is a paycheck and I am aware of how anything can be misconstrued and you could end of with getting dragged off to HR and even suspended and fired. It is way to risky in this day and age to fuck around on the job.

Some years ago we had a married supervisor that was fucking around with one of our colleagues. At least that was the rumor that was going around. This rumor spread when his wife came to the property and caused a huge scene in front of everyone and had to be escorted off the premises. Eventually our colleagues ended the adulterous relationship and she later filed a sexual harassment complaint against the man. Supervisor ended up resigning rather than going through the kangaroo court of an HR investigation. A few months later that same female colleagues started flirting with me. I avoided her like the dark, vile drunkard plague she was.

On another occasion I once witnessed another married supervisor hitting heavy with one of my much younger colleagues at work. I walked right past them and to this day I am not sure if they even noticed me. But from that moment onward I never looked at them the same - I never said anything to anyone there but my esteem for both of them went down the toilet. BTW- his wife works for the same company but in a different dept. That same female colleague of mine started flirting with that supervisor's son later on. Yuck... what a weird teaser she was.

The point is - don't fuck around at work.

And I have rambled enough so good night.

bolverk · Accepted Answer

Not a boss, but his niece who was a summer intern at the factory I worked at, she was French and could not understand why none of the guys in the factory had wanted to date her and none of the guys would tell her for fear of offending her. So took her out for a coffee I had to explain that while she was a nice attractive girl, she was only 'visiting' for a short time and the guys who worked there had to be able to work with her uncle after she left which she seemed to accept. a couple of days later I got called to the managers office, I had an Idea what was going on, I was thanked by the manager for explaining to his niece why none of the guys would date her, now she knew she stopped making her uncles life hell, with rants about how no one liked her, and her being stuck in the North of England til university started again. She soon found a boyfriend in town after realising that she's have to look outside of the factory.

menina · Accepted Answer

Not sure if this counts as flirting but once I went to a job interview and something weird happened.

It was a 2 part interview, the first time was in group. The second one was in private. There's this man who was part of the company. He spent the whole interview looking at me and smiling.

Then on the second part, I had to talk to him. So, he asked all the questions he had to and I answered. Then, when I was done and ready to leave he said that he liked meeting me and that I was pretty.

He said that there was something about me and that he was waiting to hear what I had to say. In the end he asked me if I remembered where was the door and he took me there. It was one of the strangest interviews I've been to.

NobodyXox · Accepted Answer

A boss definitely. But we were more friends running a business than actually boss and employee. He was not that much older and got along really well, so there was some flirting between us. It was not that weird in my opinion.

jennifer_bloom · Answer

My bosses usually treated me like a niece or daughter. They protected me cause I seemed young and vulnerable.

bededazzle · Answer

as a teacher, to be honest, i have flirted with college age students before. it’s bad. i mean, it’s much less inappropriate for the students to do it. like for me, there is no way i’d have any sort of relationship with a 20 year old woman. However, people have their charms, and sometimes it happens.

JacobJordan · Answer

no idea if it counts as it could have just been a wardrobe issue. had a teacher that everyone was very attracted to who would always lean over in to check my work exposing her cleavage and would put her on mine and would linger for a bit as she stood up. I am very dumb when it comes to people flirting or hitting on me something that likely has made my marriage easier as apparently women hit on me a lot and I do not notice.

Sparkie460 · Answer

My bosses wife flirts with me all the time.  Oh wait, I am the boss. It's my wife. Lmao 🤣

HaleyCatgirl · Answer

I mean I used to have a co-worker who would be kind of flirty and uncomfortable he was older than me I talked to him and he understood and stopped kind of funny how if you just talked to the person how that works.

rosemilk · Answer

yes, the creepy ones... right before the pandemic hit, a creepy higher up was always bothering me, we then thankfully got to work from home and i was free from being so uncomfortable all of the time.

midnightmoon05 · Answer

My little sisters history teacher.  I went to her parent teacher conference when she was in HS.  I also chaperoned her class trip. So we dated a bit.

Sunnybeach123 · Answer

I had a math teacher once who noticed that I had an erection during class. She took me aside and told me to go to the boy's room and come back "when it passes".

kellytheman · Answer

I had a supervisor that flirt and hit on me. She be calling me cute and get a little handsy with me while no one be looking. We did work together late one night alone and I knew what she wanted so I finally gave her what she wanted.

DryGermanGuy · Answer

A department lead… and she was so very clumsy. 🤭😬

Joshydavid25 · Answer

I had a teacher or two flirt with me, and one even indirectly called me goodlooking while getting on me about my grades..

Wraith_Cemetery · Answer

I haven't had that happen to me but, as a prof in uni, I've had a few students hit on me haha.

DeeDeeDeVour · Answer

I used to work for 2 politicians.  They're both married and I personally know their wives yet they kept trying to hit on me.

abc3643 · Answer

It was the other way around with me when I was a teacher.

glennos89 · Answer

No I would be gone immediately to find another job/teacher

zagor · Answer

No, never happened to me. Only had a couple female bosses, and let's just say I'm very grateful they never did that.

SUMAIREBRAHIM · Answer

Yes my teacher used to flirt with me  And she was 2 year elder than me. Nothing happened we knew our boundaries everything was healthy relationship

Anonymous · Answer

Some flirting with a teacher but nothing crazy

dolemite58 · Answer

i had a female boss that would flirt with me a lot in my early 20s, i always laughed to myself if the roles were reversed and she was a man she’d get in serious trouble.

Minahh · Answer

I had a crushes on my teachers but they never hit on me (un) fortunately 😭

Luckycharms12 · Answer

Yes quite few times first time happened it was teacher

the_sinner · Answer

Thankfully none yet. We have strict workplace rules.

NathanDavis · Answer

nope... I only wished, lol

rachel776 · Answer

they stare a lot in middle school

Radiate143 · Answer

Teachers but never had a boss hit on me.

KostasKouvalis · Answer

I wish. Sadly, no. Lucky you

AnusNdaPainus · Answer

I had a date with one of bosses before

Maddy2002_ · Answer

Few and flirted back.

Boomchakalaca · Answer

Nope dont think so

Al_Musafir · Answer

Just once.

Anonymous · Answer

Yes a few times but did connect sexually

Becky316 · Answer

I did in college

Date_a_Snob · Answer

Yes I have

Starrrboy · Answer

Yeah lol..

LavLavLuv · Answer

Boss.. yes

Rohaan2020 · Answer

My boss did…

CubaPirate · Answer

Yes twice

Slim57 · Answer

Never

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