After my final last week I ended up being the last one to leave class. My professor and I started talking and he asked me why I barely came to class. I thought I was in trouble so I told him the truth which was I had other stuff to do… ( like hair appointments) and I didn’t even think he would notice me being gone. He ended up saying he enjoyed our conversations (that was the only time we ever spoke) and asked for my number which took me by surprise because this man has a one week old baby and a wife. I gave it to him because if I said no I didn’t want him to retaliate by making me fail the class. I honestly hoped he wouldn’t text me. Today he did asking me to hang out.
Has a professor or teacher ever hit on you while you were in school?
In college, i had this professor. He often used me and an example of whatever i was wearing as the topic of our marketing/sales class (in a nice way. It wasn't anything sleazy... just name brand clothes and graphic tees.) After class we always ended up in the elevator together and we’d say high and practically just have eyesex from separate corners of the elevator. This went on for half the semester. Now mind you i thought he was single and his 20s. The second half i found out he was actually almost 40 and a newlywed. I immediately lost interest and avoided being alone with him in the elevator. I’d shun him and he could tell. I wore huge hoodies to cover my entire outfit and he got mad he couldnt use me as an example for his school topics. I continued to ignore him and i could see the frustration in his eyes. At the end of the semester, i had to go to his office to get assistance on a project. I left the door wide open so the secretary could keep an eye out. He stood up smirking and closed the door. I told him no need since my ride was waiting outside. He shut it anyways. His secretary immediately barged in and said its best to leave the door open wij a student. So this mf cracked the door to wear it still looked shut. I say on the opposite side of his desk and he was like “why so far away?” He grabbed the arm of my chair and slid me around to his side of the desk. I was all shakey and he giggled and said do i make you nervous. I responded that im just in a hurry so i opened my laptop. He pretended to look at the excel spreadsheet but all a sudden, i felt his hand brush aside my hair and he placed his other hand on my thigh and he leaned in and looked like he was tryna kiss my neck. I jumped back and he was like wow you just smell so good, is that Victoria secret? Reminds me of my wife’s. Now i couldnt tell if he was looking at my bra strap or referring to the lotion i had on, but i freaked out and jumped up and left. It felt like a pass and it felt like he didn't care that he was married. The next day in class, the topic of his class was victoria secret and he stared me down the whple time he discussed. Creepy and i just made sure to never be alone with him again.
In High School, I had detention once and the alternative ed teacher boldly told the class he wanted to fck the shit out of my tits. They laughed it off but i was extremely uncomfortable. I walked out the room and he goes to my church so he still smirks at me and tries to act all respectful around my parents. But my mom is aware of the creep he used to be.
The fact that your professor asked for your number is nuts! I saw the college professor at a library some years later and he just stared while i took off 🤣
I should have but i didn't. I just feel like if i dont have shit on recording, that it wouldn't hold up. Because i’ve wanted to report him and the high school teacher i mentioned under him (who the class wouldve never ratted on because he was so laid back). I also wanted to report my first boyfriend but he had the hood and several gangs to back him up just like they did his cousin who actually raped someone. I wanted to report my old crushes uncle who tried to come on to me when he offered me a job position. Like he literally kept asking was i a virgin. Like wtf this gotta do wth an interview? Then he tried to get closer to me and said that he could be more of a man for me than his childish nephew. And yes this mf was married and had 3 kids and went to my church. Smh
That’s how I feel too. At first it was just me and him. No witnesses and no one could back me up. He’s extremely shy acting and laid back. But now I have proof because he texted me.
Oh yea well thats all you need them. Im sure the secretary wouldve had my back with the college professor but i dont feel what he did was extremely bad because i was at least 20. I just hate he made the move in general and also disrespected his wife. But that mf who tried to hire me and the detention teacher deserved to be fired. And my ex deserved jail but he's already gotten out of that many times
If you are afraid he's going to fail you, you have legit evidence and you can use that, give it to the Dean and get him fired. That's only if it comes to that. What if you text the wifes fb and drop that bomb? You would need more evidence though to do that. Either way I feel like this guy needs to learn a lesson. I doubt it's the first time it's happened. If you get him to send you pictures of his face in like his underwear, that's all you need honestly lol.
Anyway I will relate to you. But I don't know if this professor was hitting on me. I remember he was a Russian guy about 60 years old. After class I would ask for extra credit work to ensure that I would pass because his class was hard.
And i remember he would stand so close to me. I kept stepping back and he would keep stepping forward. It was really awkward. He complimented me said I was beautiful. he would talk to me about a bunch of random shit about his life and ask me a bunch of questions about my life.
I never stayed after class of the intent of getting familiar with him, I just wanted extra credit. I remember he made a comment about my weight, I was really skinny then and he was like, "I bet my 100 lb dog weighs more than you."
I remember he kept saying to me, he wanted us to be really good close friends like constantly. I never said "Yeah let's be close friends." I would always change the subject because I didn't want that at all he's just some old professor.
Then he would just force the conversation back it was always awkward. He invited me over his house for a party, he invited other students and he said other students would be there. I thought yeah um I don't want to get raped... I'm not going. I just got those creepy vibes from him. But maybe I'm overreacting?
Long story short: There was this teacher she was very curious about me after handing out my work sheets/papers. While she read mines and compared with others, she came back to me and said: "Dennis, the way you paraphrase, the way you write is like on another level. It's very highly intelligent" (I'd receive this compliment by so many, amongst them were jealous ones but I didn't care as they are a waste of time).
We were alone, others left.
She came closer to me with shiny eyes and asked about my hobbies. So I said: "In reading, I am interested in many topics such as neuroscience, computer science, Laws etc. Also I like to play snooker/Billiard and so on.
She laughed hard when I said that I liked to read.
This moment when she laughed, I could sense that she wanted to stroke my arm but held back. (Logically we'd be in trouble).
End of the story. And since today she is still admiring me a lot as I have re-visited the teachers just to say hi and so on.
Ohh damn... I hope you find a good solution out of that, how uncomfortable must this shit be 😳 Or just be straight forward and call him out on his bullshit, in a nice way so you don't risk your grades but still enough to make him stop
I think my TA liked me when I was 18 - he was an Ivy League educated lawyer and I later saw him walking around with a girl from my cultural background which is Chinese, the TA is African.
@MrReliable12 I’m just saying he carried a certain religious and high tolerance foreign vibe when I talked to him so I thought he might be raised in a Christian family outside North American culture
Back when I was in junior high, they brought these trainees in and she was so frickin hot, how can I ever forget miss Aisha?
I'd try so much to impress her, it wa easy coz she was an English teacher to a school that wasnf very good at English, English was my forte...
Acting like I wanted to help I'd always talk to her and get like extra work under the guise of helping other students,
This 1 time I had to stay late, she was there too, I got a bonner coz had some dirty thought about something 🤣🤣 She noticed, this changed everything..
Among the first times I ate out a woman. Came so fcking much that year I'm sure I lost some weight.. her friend rated us out. She got the boot, I was expelled. Met 1 more time and fucked all weekend like our lives defended on it..
Never saw or heard from/about her ever again.. only thing I have/had is/was a pair of panties I threw few years after.. i keep no more trophies for such stuff...
When I was a junior in high school my friends and I would hangout in a room where a group of counselors were located. They would help with homework or give advice. Halfway through year one of the male counselors would talk to me a lot and he would start flirting with me. I was starting to feel weird since I was 16 or 17 years old. He would say things like "we should go to a baseball game together" or "you look really nice today I like your outfit and hair". I remember that day he said that my friends and the other counselors gave him a weird look and his face turned red.
I don't get why that's surprising, at that point, he wasn't your professor anymore. I've flirted with teachers to get better grades or extensions on projects, offered up research, hell, even used blackmail on one because I happened to catch him out and about very intimate with a woman who most definitely was not his wife he had bragged about.
With a one week old he's not getting any at home anyway, even under the assumption that his wife healed up and was ready to rock and roll, newborns require a ton of attention and wake up about every two hours to eat, require a diaper change, etc.
It makes me more curious about how he was planning to pull it off if you had said yes, that's a tight time window he's working with, and I highly recommend against pissing off pregnant women or new moms lol.
Had a teacher in my senior year of high school suggest she could alter my math grade if we went out to dinner. She tried to argue that because I was 18 it would be fine, but I thought she was a complete bitch and hated her. Also, in Maryland there is a teacher regulation for teachers that an 18 year old still in senior year is to be treated as a minor still and that teachers would be punished the same for unwarranted advances on students as if the student was 16-17. I reported her to my favorite teacher who helped me get this bitch fired.
In the 11th grade I had a History teacher who hit on me. I was fucking her 16 year old daughter and am sure her daughter told her about us having sex. Am sure the daughter also the huge cock I had. Went over to her house one evening. We had a great time, fucked for over an hour. As I was pulling my cock out, her daughter walked in the room and said “My turn”. She got on my cock real quick and we fucked and fucked while her mother lay in bed masturbating, occasionally holding my cock as it went in and out of her daughter. What a great night. For the next year we got together weekly for a night of good fucking.
If he has a wife also that kind of retaliation is wrong. I honestly do not know his intentions but. I am guessing you feel creeped out and it is fine to tell him no that you don't want to hang out.
Retaliation like you said is horrible and I am guessing illegal. If you are getting the creeps then you have every right to be. While again I do not know his intentions, if you feel creeped out you have good reason to be
Starting in grade 6 every single female teacher under 40 did, and some got really crazy horny at times. I'm not upset at them though, I'd screwed them all if it didn't get us into trouble.
Your situation is different, if you want good grades you can flirt with him over text but shy away in person I suggest.
Not any of my teachers, but I did walk into my friend's class one time during college and his teacher had a thing for me lol. Chilled for a bit. Conversed. Flirted. Left.
Apparently when I left the room she told the entire class how attractive I was lmao. I told him if it helped his grade I would go out with her 😂
I had two of them hit on me when I was a grad student in my early 30s (both were females in their 30s and I spoke their native language) and when I was an undergrad another one hit on me at a party during one of the semesters I had her as a professor (she was older than me but was still in her 20s). Never happened when I was high school student (thank God)>
Not to my knowledge. But if it counts, the cute male teacher in 10th grade did record my voice once, because me singing the poems for a fest was that good. He recorded on his cell, and he probably did so for his nephew or something. The poem was middle school level difficult. And because many girls had a crush on him, it totally boosted my ego.
I did have a women teacher aid in highschool when I was a senior who was training to become a teacher. She was a senior in college and I stayed after class talking to her and she asked if I like to come over to her place and help me in my class. I feel like she was hitting on me because I was ace the class and she kept touching me certain parts of my body. Nothing happened but as I look back kinda wished I went to her place.
I had a French blonde teacher who was never my teacher but I had a homeroom class with her the one year. And it was so obvious she wanted my man meat lol. For a while she would keep on insisting to stay after class so she could teach me French even though I was never technically ever her student lol. Mind you for free by the way. I never rejected her as that would have been awkward but I never took her up on that offer. Plus this was when I was in highschool.
"I gave it to him because if I said no I didn’t want him to retaliate by making me fail the class." This is not true. This is called women logic and its how you justify accepting a married mans advance without sounding like a slut. But it makes you sound probably even more like a slut tbh. I dont care im just saying my pure thoughts no sugar coating.
I have been hit on by teachers. I had a teacher in hs with a sexy fat ass and she let me grab it. I also had two female college professors hit on me and flirt hard w me but i didn't take it any further. I did have sex with a TA in college who was an older doctorate student while i was a junior for my bachelors.
You incels love to slut shame people. I’ve never been with a married man and never would be with a married man. I’m not gonna say no so he can give me an F for rejecting him. Now that I have proof of him texting me, I can easily report him.
He could easily give you an F... smh. Why would you think he would? Thats weird asf and not likely. Tell me has this happened to you where you failed a class because you didn't date a teacher? Tell me all the times this happened to you. Please.
Considering that several of my classmates were the children of my teachers, I can say there was nothing there. Granted this was in high school, there were a few students when I was in college who were married to their teacher (they married before taking the class).
@Gagname yeah, I'm not 100% sure they were actually signed up for the class per se. They attended the class though. It's possible they were just auditing it.
Yes but thankfully I never let him be alone with me or anything like that. I had two creepy teachers 1 was my English teacher in elementary school (4th grade) and the other was my Spanish professor. Both of them creeped me out so much. I remember almost sprinting out of the classroom when class was over just to get away.
No I have never been hit on by a teacher, had a couple creepy ones who would look at me weird back in highschool though. The closet thing I got is ME hitting on my teacher instead. God damn he was so fucking hot. 😂
No, though it would have been nice if my high school biology teacher (a gorgeous blonde) had hit on me... ah, but that was just my fantasy, and what a good fantasy that was.
Yeah though it was a substitute teacher in my senior year of hs. But wow that's so inappropriate of him, I wonder if he does that often and how many students he's "hung out" with
I had a hard on And kept trying to push my hard on down while in a recycling bin. Teacher kept telling me to work hard and After I got done Doing the recycling the teacher told me thanks for working hard.
@EyeKnowMeNahYou The highlighted part of her questions description claims him married with a brand new baby. If she can’t have sex for 6 weeks you can see his frustration, but he helped make said baby. He has zero pain other than having to wait.
I know I know lol, but I've seen this before but ladies upset the same similar things or have literally asked guys for their girlfriends or wife number so that they can call them too that's just funny
no not as far as I can remember, but I did have a teacher who was very very very open with how much he liked me so much more than the other students lol
You mostly hung out w the guys, huh?…why was that?
And because you weren’t in a “reading/writing/or arithmetic” type of class doing written work, sounds like your PE teacher telling you “he liked [you] so much more than the other students” sounds to me like he especially liked how “physically fit” you were. Lol
He could definitely fail me and he still can. Grades haven’t been finalized which is why I’m hesitant to report him now. I don't know how often he does this or how many girls he does this to.
I think u should… I jus understand why you don’t want to now. But don’t feel pressure to report him either. Jus do what’s best for u. I totally would report him bcos he’s either done it b4 or def will again n it will get worse over time as he think ms he can get away with it!…. Good luck hun.. n know that it’s his responsibility to be wiser. (He’s responsible for his actions)
Nope but I hit on a professor before I was surprised when she flirted back and hair appointments aren't a good reason to miss class and he hit on you cause your a major cutie but you already know this
Noooo , the girls in the class were already talking and suspicious. He noticed it too because one of the students was interested in him but she was ugly
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