I've forgotten how to flirt. I'm really lost...

[Anonymous]

So my girlfriend left me for another guy 2 days ago and we had been dating for 2 years. But now another girl keeps talking to me and I think she's interested. But each time we talk, the conversation always dies out. So, I'm embarrassed to say, I've forgotten how to flirt and how to find someone else. So for my sanity and for the gaping hole in my heart...Help

[Phoenix1991]

Well bro, first off, I'm sorry to hear about what happened to you. Now I don't know how to flirt persay, but doesn't mean all hope is lost. I think flirting too directly isn't the best idea to do so. If you just say things like "Your eyes are beautiful." Is too common and too normal and boring. Now if you said something like this , you might get points for originality " Your eyes , when I look into them I feel like I'm staring at a sunset on a nice summer day with a gentle breeze, you know that feeling? It allows you to understand and feel the word Harmony" Etc. Or just say indirect compliments or etc. The art is to remain calm and laid back, if your calm and laid back, she will feel the same way. Its more mind over matter, I hope you find your own method to doing so. Good luck! =)