My best friend grabbed my hand and put it around her throat, is this something you would say is normal?

[Anonymous]

I will preface this with that I am not great with social queues.

I've been friends with this girl for over a decade at this point. We've gotten closer and closer over the years but this seems a little too close? We were wrestling and fucking around like we always do. Then after we stopped we were sitting there talking in the middle of the conversation she grabs my right hand and puts it around her throat and giggles/ smiles.

I would normally think that this would be a great sign of some mutual interest on her end, but she has had a boyfriend for almost a decade at this point. Like I said she's never done anything like this before either. Maybe I'm trying to read into it when I shouldn't. You tell me!

[Anonymous]

She was either horny at the time or wanted you to kiss her. Maybe she likes it rough but keep consent in mins

[Asker]

Yeah, I was thinking along the lines of that but kind of dismissed those thoughts as me reading into things too much. Apparently I was not.

[Anonymous]

Oh that's hot

She's submissive, she wants you to win the wrestling match and dominate her

Choking is just one way to do so

[Asker]

It definitely was. Caught me off guard that's for sure. Thanks for the response.

[Opinion Owner]

Hey any update?
Did you pin her down?

[Asker]

Ummm unfortunately not really. We've both been super busy with work and any free time she has goes towards her boyfriend/events. Haven't seen each other in person since the incident lol. She calls me every day like she has for the past few years, so we talk a lot. I'd prefer to bring it up in person so she can't just hang up though.

[Opinion Owner]

good good

[Asker]

Hedge any advice on how I should approach the topic? I'm unsure of how to bring it up.

[Anonymous]

“ We were wrestling and fucking around like we always do.”

So you are both very immature?

[Asker]

If by immature you mean play fight and fuck around while having fun then sure. I feel like doing that doesn't inherently correlate to immaturity but to each their own. Thanks for the response regardless.

[Ashley1993]

She wants you to beat her in wrestling

[Anonymous]

That is definitely not normal.