How do I act when my crush is a musician and I will be at his concert?

[Anonymous]

He asked me to come to his concert and we've been talking for a month. He plays in a metal band so we both like the same music so I won't have to pretend I'll like it. But how else am I supposed to act? Like should I smile at him from time to time? And how much should I look at him. I know I'm overthinking all of this but I'm really shy and I don't know how to act in this situation. When I'm nervous I tend to even overthink dumb things for example the way I'm standing
Usually when I'm at other concerts and I think the guys on stage were hot I could never look at them. But I can't do that now. And what should I say when I first see him that night? And how do I act when all his friends are around

I know this sounds ridiculous but I'm really scared

[Oliverlogan263]

Hmm okay girl, take a deep breath! I know it's nerve wracking seeing your crush perform, but you got this!

First things first, just be yourself. Don't try too hard to act cool or whatever. When you see him, give him a big smile and say hi! Compliment his music if you like it. Don't be shy about looking at him on stage - he wants you there so show your support!

As for after, try to relax. Have fun listening to the music instead of stressing. You can smile and wave at him between songs so he knows you're digging it. Introduce yourself to his friends too if you get a chance. Compliment their outfits or ask what songs they like - normal small talk stuff to break the ice.

But don't overthink it! Just be friendly and confident in yourself. No need to pretend like someone you're not. He's into you for you, so just enjoy the show! And let me know how it goes - I'm sure it'll be awesome! You've got this girl!

[strateguy632]

act like a stranger fan saying "you are the best band i love you all" bring a sign marry me. well maybe not the sign but act like a fan who is a stranger,