I have a crush on this guy that I see in gym class (school) but I have no fucking idea what his name is, neither have I talked2him how do I find out?

[carmenx]

i ain't going up to him and talking to him thats just weird

[Summeroflove]

You should go up and talk to him. You have to meet him somehow. Don’t play games. Just ask him his name. What you don’t want to happen is…. Find out later down the road. He all the sudden has a girlfriend because you waited too long.


Stop talking yourself out of it. Worst case scenario is you’re rejected. Yeah it is nonral to be nervous but if that happens. You will have closure and aren’t wasting time waiting around on a guy whose not interested and won’t make a move. And even if you got introduced to one another ir wouldn’t go anywhere.



On the other hand. Things may go really well. See if he wants to meet for coffee. It’s. A great first date

[TheNameDoesntMatter]

Hey we are around the same age! I wanted to ask you if he is from another grade which I assume he is. I'd memorize his face and check the yearbooks to find him, that's all, you can follow him on social or anything but don't stalk him or anything that doesn't help at all. If that doesn't work out you may ask a reliable friend and ask him or her whether or not they know him. Later after he is familiar with you attempt to go talk to him and don't make it awkward. Don't try to message him that is only going to let him now that you are desperate. Also ask yourself if you truly like him, appearance does matter but it is not there is to life. It could turn out that the guy could be a douche, don't be delusion, get to know him first. I hope this helps.

[_Maya_]

Girl take a big huge breath. You got this. You are obviously crushing and that is normal at your age. Just don’t worry about it so much. If he likes you too then things will work out. I was the same with my hs boyfriend. I crushed so hard. I kept flirting and then at a school dance we connected. You just need that opportunity to make things happen. Even as an adult I can tell you that the same thing happens now. It is that very special moment when you both know it. Now to answer what to do? Flirt back!!! Give him some signals you are into him. Put the ball back in his court so to speak. Do that and see what/happens/

[_Maya_]

I am so sorry for the other answers you have. They are unhelpful.

[Anonymous]

Talk to his friends.

[Anonymous]

you’re too young to date

[DreamLife7]

Why are you chasing?