I was at Crumbl cookies waiting to pickup an order for my customer, and the girls there wear leggings. One girl was there and damn, her booty was incredible.
I stared and as I did, I noticed that she began to smile and she was half turned away from me, I stopped once I realized it, my face was quite warm😅
Have you been caught or caught someone staring before?
I regret not staring. I was always brought up not to stare and it is the WORST thing to be brought up to not do.
Staring is actually a great way to show hightened interest and continued staring [taking in the whole person] is very exciting / flattering, the only exception where someone should go against their instinct to stare is if they are only staring at some part of a person, rather than at them as a whole person (or their frowning at your staring).
I hate that my instinct to stop staring (which is through an idea of its impolite), so many beautiful girls have felt confused when they look amazing and the guy isn't looking / reflecting their efforts.
So yes, I've been caught staring and have made instinct the wrong thing to do. It's very hard to undo that. I guess the + side is that on the rare ocassions my stare is unwelcomed I'm straight away to fix it.
Nah. I'm photosensitive so I always wear sunglasses when I'm outside. The darkest grade of sunglasses. I'm immune to eye-contact. Nobody can see where I'm looking, and I make sure to never turn my face directly towards anyone unless I'm speaking to them either, so they can't guess based on that.
Yes, I usually act like I didn't notice unless they are right in front of me staring I only had that happen to me 2 times when I was out. Last time I got caught staring at someone was in grade 10 where I realized it was awkward and not a good idea to stare at people lol
Yeah, I've been caught staring before. I remember when I was younger, I had a classmate who I admired for their looks. Of course, I didn't understand why I always looked at them because I was too young for words. My classmates asked me if I had a crush on him and I'm like "No."
This is the best conversation I've seen on GaG all week lol. If you wear leggings guys will stare. Especially the type of leggings that show camel toe or butt crack outline. Some girls might wear them for attention, some might not. Everyone is different, but guys are all horny so they will stare and try not to get caught, fact.
Once I think. Otherwise there is a difference between an intentional and deliberate look to gauge their response (and therefore interest) and being a creeper. A man needs to know the difference.
I have been caught for sure. And I have also caught women checking out my natural bulge in my pants… which has freakishly happened a lot more often as I aged, or perhaps as they have become bolder in the past 10 to 15 years.
I had a teacher catch me staring at a girls ass when she bent over at college. The teacher called me out on it and said I am a pervert doing that however I think the girl I stared was flattered by it. It was a woman teacher by the way.
I see people staring regularly. I don't because I don't care what she looks like I care how she acts and behaves
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Anonymous
(45 Plus)
1 mo
Most everyone looks. Even woman are looking other woman up and down making silent calculations and judgements. "That looks nice, that doesn't" It is human nature.
I got caught numerous times but I got smiles from the women who caught me staring at them. I even got a date with some of them.
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Anonymous
(18-24)
1 mo
I am short shirts often have the cleavage area big and that gives me crazy cleavage as much as i try to hide it my shirts slip at times and i often catch men staring but i always have a hoodie handy to zip up if i felt like someone is looking
