Online flirting vs IRL which would you rather?

Question

Paul_in_Indy · Accepted Answer

IRL is more exciting and intimate—and if we end the evening in bed, then the build up from IRL flirting makes it amazing.

BUT online flirting usually gets me nude photos wishing an hour. In-Person flirting rarely goes like that! …. and if we meet after sharing nudes, it is much easier to transition to physical intimacy.

PLUS I can be flirting with four girls at once online. That maximizes my chances.

I find that meeting and flirting with girls near me online is a better way to get laid.

But IRL is more satisfying.

AviatorTom · Accepted Answer

In person flirting has the benefit of seeing their physical actions and reactions as they flirt, and you flirt with them. Online flirting misses that.

PeachyPie93 · Accepted Answer

Online because then if you curb them it doesn't matter and things don't go to far if you keep it online lol

Pinay_ako · Accepted Answer

Online and texting is super easy 😂. I prefer to see their facial expression in person.

PreferNot2Say · Answer

It's better received by women online than in person. Women are more visual than men and they develop an opinion on a man the second they see them and that mostly hinders any flirting before it even starts.

MrQun · Answer

I'd selected in person. Sure, flirting online is safe, convenient and it's much easier to be brave when you hiding behind walls of text. But that world is fake.

Anonymous · Answer

online flirting is nice sometimes because you can have a little fun and then it's over with no hurt feelings

DizzyDesii · Answer

I like both but its more fun at sporting events and the mall

sawno · Answer

I am way more experienced in the online stuff, mostly due to personal circumstances and my career. I don't meet girls in real life very often.

Jerre · Answer

I prefer IRL, BUT do some online here on GaG

Anonymous · Answer

If you've ever seen the movie Fresh, you wouldn't want some stranger coming up to you flirting with you in a grocery store lol But to answer your question IRL hands down.

MsBrie · Answer

Online you dont really know who you are flirting with even if i end a giggling mess in person.

JHAYES317 · Answer

I’m a lot better at online flirting because I can take time to think about my response, but IRL is better if it works…which it rarely does in my case lol

Veles · Answer

Flirting online is for losers.

LaurenM1997 · Answer

In person flirting it’s more fun and you can see how they feel

NathanDavis · Answer

I don't do either... lol

Yahoo13 · Answer

In person. It's easy to write things but seeing people's expressions and body language and closeness etc shows if there is a spark there or chemistry more then messaging. You get more of an actual sense of the person and if the vibe is actually there.

IslaTheWitch · Answer

with @nathandavis any flirt is a pure thrill

Phoenix98 · Answer

Flirting is flirting but obviously it's more fun face to face because you can see all the little reactions.

Nikki1989 · Answer

Whenever. I don't place rules on myself.

RHK36 · Answer

Tbh I don't even notice when I'm flirting most of the time. When I intentionally try is when it comes out the worst.

GoodGuyBreakingBad · Answer

IRL ( In Real Life Flirting )

loveslongnails · Answer

What's the point in flirting if you never meet the person?

Zlantur2 · Answer

Online with plenty of sexting. Love the teasing and pictures/videos.

DarkWinterNights · Answer

Hah! Wouldn’t be able to recognize either one.

Dongie · Answer

In the flesh 💔

LiamJHayden · Answer

I only approach in real life.

Jamie05rhs · Answer

Online, of course. It's much safer.

Starrrboy · Answer

IRL.. I kinda hate texting lol..

clampfan101 · Answer

IRL with a female friend.

Booklover_90 · Answer

In real life, for sure. Too many catfish online.

DJB72 · Answer

Nothing wrong with making someone smile

Sam12348 · Answer

Real life ofc. Anyone can flirt behind a screen

12karen · Answer

In person flirting is a lot better

Coden7 · Answer

Irl for sure

LiamS95 · Answer

I like both online and irl

NYlatefun · Answer

Always in person! Nothing compares to it!

strateguy632 · Answer

5th,

SolitarySolace · Answer

None of the above

dudeinohio · Answer

Online

guyinterested · Answer

Online

Online flirting vs IRL which would you rather?

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