Why do I always get people who stalk me?

[Anonymous]

I've noticed a pattern. I attract women and men who tend to stalk a bit or is this normal with everyone

[Anonymous]

But are they really staking you? Or is that just “your reality.” Meaning you feel this way so you’re always going to see things in society that backups what you think. A lot of women say they feel u safe because of men but that’s cause many of them have that mentality that a majority of men are just creeps looking to hurt them. So they live in that reality, which only festers it more. So then they only see the things that reinforce those thoughts.

[Asker]

Well I've noticed people seeing me and then the next days arriving at the same time I come in but this is the gym and parties. I had 2 girls lock me in the bathroom and harrass me cause I had a nice body

[Opinion Owner]

Doesn’t mean they’re stalking you. Maybe what you’re seeing has always been there in general. You just never noticed it till now. It’s like when you purchase a new car. All of a sudden f you realize everyone else seems to be purchasing the same car as you since you got your new car. But in reality it’s just always been that way.

[Awesomesauce2005]

It's only stalking if they are unattractive. If someone is "stalking you" they probably like you and are too nervous about rejection to engage

[Awesomesauce2005]

I only know this because this is what I do. More women need to realize most men aren't creeps.

[Asker]

But the unattractive men or men who don't have any boundaries ARE the creeps

[Wise4myage]

That’s not normal, but your looks probably have a lot to do with it.

[Asker]

What about my looks does this mean to you

[Wise4myage]

They are really into you.

[BarryLiverstone]

Yep, people stalk me as well

[HappyWoman34]

Just lucky I guess

[spartan55]

I believe it's called Paranoia

[SolitarySolace]

Why do I always get people who are selfish?