Do some guys flirt by being rude?

[Anonymous]

[Vermillion30]

I never have. Flirting for me is looking at someone, making eye contact, asking about her interests and talking about them. If I notice a new hair cut or new smell or something I’ll compliment them on it.

Then hints. I love those movies, have you seen? You need to watch it and tell me how it is. You liked it? Can I get your number I have a few movies I think you may also like, should let me know what you think.

Have you tried (food)? No? I love cooking it. If you ever want to try it let me know.

I never invite someone to my house first date or three) so it’s more to get talking, going for a walk in a public place or getting coffee in a public place.

Im not really rude but if I suggest sharing/ getting coffee an she says no even if it’s playful it means no, and I go from liking the person, to not really being rude, but I won’t really go out of my way to see and talk to them and do try to avoid them.

An yes, I don’t date much and normally don’t talk to people so yeah as I’m not good at talking, I know cringe.

[Sabretooth]

Nah. We're just naturally obnoxious. Although, I do remember an episode of Malcolm in the middle where this happened. Not a show that I really watched unless I didn't feel like doing much else... That like what, 3? So, maybe a more immature guy might do this.

[Anonymous]

Well I’d that’s was true, for me this is not flirting. Respect is first thing

[Avicenna]

Generally, no, but there are always some clueless exceptions.

[ChicoFromThe305]

That's a terrible way to flirt but I wouldn't be surprised if that exists

[Asker]

😂😂

[lorenzomichael]

Sure it's the same way us guys used to pull girls hair or push them in the the sand in elementary if we liked them. But some of us grow out of that. But hey if he's rude to you by telling you "FUCK YOU" he probably wants too. I'm just saying.

[DarkWinterNights]

I wouldn’t say enough to give you a reliable answer one way or another. But some younger guys who aren’t very good at flirting or who have been shot down a lot will use a rude or abrasive front to shield their feelings.

[ProbablyClueless]

Not usually. But there are always idiots out there that would think they were being charming.

[handsomelad70]

Yes, but why would they? Rudeness generally turns off people, especially someone you're trying to impress enough that she'll be your girlfriend.

[MrDaveAPSI]

Those are your typical "bad boys" a lot of girls "like"

[TommyMountainFigure]

Only the ones without class!

[Luckycharms12]

Yes I've seen it work

[PrettyCrumblBb]

No. That's weird.

[jahaims]

Immature ones do

[WhitneySnow]

Sadly yes