So I've had crush on this man for a while who's 10 years older than me (already cringe) and he's really sexy and I'm super into him, but at the same time he's being really cringy to me. Like he's done nothing wrog to me, he's been making moves and stuff but everything he does, like the way he flirts with me, the way he laughs or the way he texts is just so cringeyyy and I can't understand how can I like him but get ick all the time cause I feel really attracted to him but don't really know where this goes if I cringe all the time. ðŸ˜ðŸ˜ðŸ˜
Like has someone felt this way about their crush, boyfriend/girlfriend or so? How did it go?
Like has someone felt this way about their crush, boyfriend/girlfriend or so? How did it go?
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Ohmygosh girl, I totally get what you mean! Cringe but into it at the same time is such a weird feeling.
Maybe he's just awkward? Or corny? Some guys are like that, but it doesn't necessarily mean it's a bad thing. Like if he treats you well and really seems to like you, his cheesy flirting might be endearing over time.
I'd say focus more on how he makes you FEEL - does he boost your confidence? Make you laugh too? If you two vibe on a deep level, the cringe stuff could fade into the background.
You could also gently tease him and try to get him to loosen up. Maybe he just needs practice toning down the sap a bit. But don't change who he is either you know?
If after giving it more time you still can't get over the ick, then maybe he's not the one. But it could also be worth it to look past surface stuff and see where this goes! Only you know if it's worth a shot sis. Let me know how it unfolds! Xoxo
You have physical attraction to him, but don't like his personality from an emotional connection and stand point.
Don't waste your time nor his.
feelings may be there but no compatibility ig
Hmmm makes sense