Asking out a girl you haven't seen in awhile

[seabazz005]

OK so I haven't seen or talked to this girl in two months because she left for school, I think she should be back for christmas break probably. We went one a date two months ago and she gave the "signs" licking of lips, hair, staring, laughing, sitting straight, but I don't know if she liked me or the convo we had. But its been two months, she said she would keep in touch and that next time she is in town we would get together. Should I wait for her to contact me or should I take the initive and say hey long time no talk maybe wish her happy holiday and then ask to see if she is in town and to get together. Or would that be to stalkerish, I don't think so since it is college break. HELP!

[amberview]

Call her. Girls/Women expect men to call them. We are used to guys getting scared off if we just tell them we like them. If you have her number now, you should be dialing.

[seabazz005]

And if I only have her email address. Is there anything I should say or recommend to say, I don't want to come off as stalkerish you know not haveing contact and then out of now where getting in contact again. Although she did agree to have coffee with me after three years of no contacts What do you think.

[amberview]

It would only be stalkerish if you called her 3 times on the same day in the first few days. :-) Do you think she has a facebook or myspace? And getting in contact out of no where is fine. It doesn't come off as bad at all. Get in contact with her and see. There is no problem with a guy trying to contact me if he likes me even if I didn't like him. It would be flattering.

[seabazz005]

Yea she has a facebook, we are actually "friends" on facebook. I haven't sent her messages through there its always her main email address. She was like 500 friends and she might not get it. Should I contact her through there or why are you asking lol? So I should just go for it, if she doesn't respond or says no then move on right, Do you think I should contact her main email or facebook.

[amberview]

Yep, try email first. If it is facebook, send a private message if it is to ask her out. You can start by asking if there is anything going on with her and if she has a boyfriend. Asking a girl if she has a boyfriend is at least the first step before asking someone out. :-)

[JH5022]

it is always a great idea because it relieves pressure and embraces social comfort and outgoingness

[seabazz005]

What