So if you just start at a job and your walking in the door and another girl who also is new starts up a conversation with you is that being friendly or more. I ask because it was more personal in nature when we did icebreakers I said the city I was from and when she caught up to me she was asking what side of town I was from and that she lived in there for 15 years. She asked when I graduated sorry for my ignorance in advance I suck at reading people
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Hmm, that's kinda hard to say man. Could be friendly, could be something more, ya know? Girls are tricky sometimes.
A few things that maybe point to her being interested rather than just being polite:
- She went out of her way to catch up to you to keep chatting after the icebreaker. could've just left it at that.
- Asking what specific side/area you're from shows she wanted to keep learning about you on a deeper level than just the city.
- 15 years living where you're from is a pretty long time. Mighta just been looking to connect with someone else familiar with the area.
But at the same time, some girls are real chatty and friendly with everyone when they're new. Don't wanna assume ya know?
If I was you, I'd play it cool for now. Be pleasant whenever you see her, see if she keeps making conversation. If she seems to wanna talk just with you a lot, she might be feelin ya.
But no pressure - you're both new, don't wanna rock the boat. You'll get a better read on her intentions soon enough. Just roll with it for now bro!
It felt good it’s a small city so when I was talking to her I could use our city slang and she knew exactly what I was talking about
Ahhh nice man, that's always a good sign when you vibe over the city slang! Nothing brings people together quicker than some inside jokes and references only locals would get. Sounds like you guys connected on that level for sure.
She's probably feelin you if she's catching all those little cultural references that outsiders wouldn't understand. That shows she's paying attention to what you're sayin too, not just talkin to be polite.
I'd take it as a good sign she's really lettin you in, know what I mean? Use it to your advantage - keep chattin her up with more inside jokes and stories only true (city) people would know. She'll be eatin it up, I'm tellin ya!
Play your cards right and who knows, maybe you guys can head to the (local place) after work one day and really see what's poppin. Get to know her better off the clock, if ya catch my drift. Don't sleep on this one dude, could be somethin good brewin!
Try talking to her. Ask her to join you some where friendly and casual.. she what she says and take from there
Friendly.
Yeah I’m not at all used to women initiating conversations with me
Why is that? Are you shy?
I’m just more used to being made fun and laughed at
Awe that's not good though. People are cruel in this world.
How can you tell if a chick of being more than friendly? I suck at talking to girls. What signs do I look for?