Girls, how old were you when guys started hitting on you or trying to flirt with you? Was it fun when that happened, or scary and confusing?

[PointlessNonsenseGuy]

[AmyHew1tt]

12. Not fun. They were all old men too. Never anyone near my age

[PointlessNonsenseGuy]

Did they think you were older, or were they just pervs?

[AmyHew1tt]

Um, I was 12, so the oldest I would look is still clearly a minor, lol. And they were in their 40s, 50s either way. Creeps 100%

[PointlessNonsenseGuy]

Weren't they afraid of getting arrested?

Or did they just not have any self control?

[AmyHew1tt]

No idea. Some men think that just because they're 'older' that they're appealing🙄🤷‍♀️

[PointlessNonsenseGuy]

But they weren't like asking you on dates, were they?

Were they like trying to lure you into their van?

[AmyHew1tt]

Just staring at me obviously, making comments, sometimes being a bit feely. I wasn't even that developed at 12 anyway, so it was weird and extremely uncomfortable.

[PointlessNonsenseGuy]

I mean, at 12 years old, having any boobs at all is impressive.

I don't know why 40 year olds would be impressed though.

[AmyHew1tt]

I didn't even have boobs. Nothing noticeable at least.

[PointlessNonsenseGuy]

Why were all these old men so focused on you? You must have been pretty, or seemed volnerable or something.

[AmyHew1tt]

Or they were just creeps. I was literally just a kid, in normal kid clothes, doing normal kid stuff.

[PointlessNonsenseGuy]

Are old men still bugging you? Or have they moved on?

[AmyHew1tt]

Yeah, the only men who've hit on me so far have been older. It's extremely annoying.

[PointlessNonsenseGuy]

And you're 19 now? Are you in college? You must be surrounded by guys your age.

[AmyHew1tt]

I'm not, actually. The only time I'm generally around a lot of people is at the gym or the pool. Even at large social gatherings when there are younger men around, I seem to be pretty invisible. I had an uncomfortable encounter with an old man there, and a bit of attention from some very very young teenage boys, but no one my age.

[PointlessNonsenseGuy]

How young were the very young teenage boys? What kind of attention did you get from them?

(I'm 16 by the way)

[AmyHew1tt]

I'd guess fourteen at the most? And I'm fairly certain it was only because of the dress I was wearing, lol. I got loads of compliments on it from everyone that day.

[PointlessNonsenseGuy]

Was the dress that revealing?

Did the 14 year olds talk to you or just stare?

[AmyHew1tt]

Not that revealing. Just elegant and red.
They catcalled me. But it was a lot more innocent than the creepy old man.

[PointlessNonsenseGuy]

Those boys all went home and had wildly inappropriate thoughts about you.

[AmyHew1tt]

Eh, maybe, maybe not. Like I said, I'm fairly certain it was just the dress. Just the fact that it was red and pretty. I'm not even skinny so I doubt it was my body. My experience otherwise has been not being noticed unless its by creeps.

[PointlessNonsenseGuy]

I don't think 14 year old boys care if a dress is pretty.

I tried to message you but apparently I can't.

Feel free to message me if you want.

[AmyHew1tt]

I don't mind messaging you, but I've had quite a few uncomfortable experiences on here with men wanting to message me only to ask me extremely personal questions and manipulate me or try to get me to sext. I'm very happy to talk, but I've learned from being a people pleaser and that I need to be clear about my boundaries there first off.

[PointlessNonsenseGuy]

I'll still ask sexual questions, but not any more sexual than I already have.

[AmyHew1tt]

I guess that's alright.

[PointlessNonsenseGuy]

I'll try not to be weird or perverted.

[AmyHew1tt]

That would be appreciated, lol

[PointlessNonsenseGuy]

I wonder if those 14 year olds remember you.

[AmyHew1tt]

Highly doubt it

[PointlessNonsenseGuy]

How long ago was it?

[AmyHew1tt]

Last summer in July.

[PointlessNonsenseGuy]

They probably still remember you.

They probably had a conversation about you that night.

[AmyHew1tt]

I really doubt it. They didn't follow me around, or anything. And I know a lot of young teenage boys. Their attention spans are super jumpy, lol.

[PointlessNonsenseGuy]

Well they thought SOMETHING about you was interesting.

Maybe how the dress was clinging to you.

[AmyHew1tt]

Maybe in the moment. But I highly doubt they remember me to this day. Short attention spans, lol

Also, if you want to talk, am I supposed to message you first? Or are you good staying here?

[PointlessNonsenseGuy]

I tried to message you, but you only accept messages from people you're following.

So you could message me, if you're willing.

[Veles]

11-12. It wasn't fun because I don't really like attention.

[PointlessNonsenseGuy]

Were the guys nice about it?

[Veles]

Some were, some weren't.

[PointlessNonsenseGuy]

Guys don't really have to deal with that. Or at least not as much.

[Nikki1989]

I was around 11, going on 12. The guys will always 2 or 3 years older.

[PointlessNonsenseGuy]

Good experience, or not so good?

[Floda]

16, late because i never noticed the short guys

[Anonymous]

age 12 it was scary at first because it was mostly old guys (even though all the old guys on here say they never even notice whether a girl under 18 is pretty; in real life that's all b. s.)