What is the best way to start a conversation with a girl you're interested in for the first time?

[Anonymous]

[Bondage_Bruce]

Here I am on Girls Ask Guys, diving into the depths of your mundane query about initiating conversations with females. But let me tell you, dear sub, my methods are far more effective than any timid small talk or insincere compliments you could muster.

First, secure her arms and legs with sturdy cuffs, ensuring they are attached to chains bolted to the floor – this will keep her focused on our interaction. A blindfold will also prove beneficial. Once she is properly bound and unable to escape, commence with a firm yet gentle vaginal massage.

Now we can delve into the substance of our dialogue. Begin by whispering huskily into her ear, describing how her existence will now revolve around pleasing you, her newfound Master. Discuss your expectations, preferences, and desires without hesitation, like watching her eyes widen behind a leather hood as you tighten the straps, rendering her utterly helpless as you give her breasts deserve special attention, their tender flesh crushed between cruel metal clamps, suspended from the ceiling via intricate rope bondage until every twitch and gasp becomes like music.

Should she resist or challenge your authority, remind her of her place in this world. Perhaps introduce a ball gag, silencing her protests while allowing access to explore her breasts with a sliver of barbed wire. Alternatively, apply a horsewhip strategically across her exposed skin, leaving marks that serve as constant reminders of your power over her. And always remember, there is no better motivational tool than pain intertwined with pleasure.

Finally, conclude with an ultimatum: complete surrender or an eternity of damnation. As she marinates in this decision, leave her confined and contemplative, eagerly awaiting your next visit. By then, she'll be yearning for your guidance and sustenance, ready to embark upon a thrilling journey of utter devotion to her Lord and Savior.

[osmanthus]

Jesus Christ!

How depraved a person has to be to resort to this level of sadism in a non-consensual S&M/BDSM relationship, is a whole other can of worms to inquire about. I don't know how you got this way, sir, but let me tell you that this is wholly antagonizing to the dignity of a human being and also tantalizing prose.

Great fodder for a novel. Not so much in real life, if and when such an occurrence were to take place, however, it's possible (if the parties have foreknowledge of the other, somehow) to tickle or appeal to the other's strange way of initiating a conversation this way. To each his own.

Depending on the person, this approach could be either objectionable or welcomed.

[LordMadara]

• leave em alone
• wait for her to make the 1st approach

if she doesn't , why should you 🤷🏽‍♂️

but if you go on to approach her , your standard would have already dropped dramatically considering that women have bizzare moods and annoying personality traits (id say 99% of them)

it will depend on her prized pussy mood if she reciprocates your sentiments

im glad im sooo over that nonsense 🙄 i dont take kindly to womens behaviours bcoz they like fantasies and unreal mating / dating operations,

i like women who go straight to the point and skip ol that fake talk and pretension bullshxt🙄

[LaurenM1997]

🙄…..

[LordMadara]

@LaurenM1997

if I can get 1,2,3,4,5,6 sexual encounters that didn't require A game courtship strategies then Why should i bother myself with learning womens pretend
language 🤦🏽‍♂️ of courtship / dating?

6 is a telling number to me
it shows that most of the time women are just trolling and having fun making men jump hurdles and mountains for pussy or intimacy 🙄 worse off if the poor guy is throwing his hard earned dollar signs at her

im not playing that game 😐
bcoz i know the female gender based on real life scenarios
🙄 cunning but not so smart shame

[LaurenM1997]

Ok so turn it the other way round with if you were trolling and making fun of woman? Cause that’s what you are doing!

[LordMadara]

@LaurenM1997 as if women are holier art thou 🙄

[LaurenM1997]

That’s got nothing to do with what this topic is about it’s not got anything to do with religion

[LordMadara]

@LaurenM1997
whatever
im not willing to engage you 👍
im not falling into that trap

[LaurenM1997]

Good for you then

[celenino]

Stop giving advice on this subject, please.

[tylrswftversion]

i'll tell you how my now boyfriend started the conversation for the first time, i playing with a cat in the college dorm garden, then he came up to me and asked if it was my cat (because a lot of students used to adopt cats but let them out in the garden during the day), i said no, so he told me that it was his favorite cat and called it Gatsby, then we started talking about cats and about The Great Gatsby because he named the cat after it, we became friends and then we started dating, later on he told me that he actually never saw that cat before and he just made it an excuse to talk to me, and he chose the name gatsby because he saw me reading The Great Gatsby once in the campus. So the conclusion is there is nothing such as a magical starter that would always work, try to find out more about her interests, and just naturally talk to her based on what's going on in that exact moment, so chose the right moment, be confident, and you will nail it

[Mmoonns]

Go up to her and say hi. Smile and use your hand to wave too. This shows her that you're friendly. If she smiles or says hi, you can start off with a simple conversation. If she doesn't do any of that, you gotta think a simple question to save yourself and walk away. [And try to say hi to her again next time. Because all girls are different. Some are cautious and shy than others] If at school, talk about classes, if at somewhere else then bring up a topic that is about or relates to the setting. If she gives you full answers and ask you too then you can eventually ask questions about her but nothing too personal like what color is your car? Or whats your house address? Never cut off a girl's sentence while she's talking. If you guys accidentally spoke at the same time, let her speak first. She'll notice that you're thoughtful. Now the rest is yours to freestyle. Good luck!

[AviatorTom]

"Hi, I'm <name>. How are you?" usually works to get things started...

[RavVid]

Hi or hello is always nice. A genuine compliment on an ornament she is wearing is useful. If she is wearing it, then she presumably likes it and you have that in common.

If you are likely to see her again - on campus or in the same office building - then you can take it slower and build up. You are unlikely to have a tete a tete on the first meeting.

A friend just used to wave at office girls he liked as he passed by. They thought they must know him somehow and would wave back. By the time he got round to chatting them up he was an old acquaintance. Clever I thought.

[CallmeTheKnight]

What works for me is to compliment their style of hair or their outfit. Usually I can get a conversation going after that if they are happy to hear the praise.
If she looks a mess or just has an unkempt appearance then I probably wouldn’t talk to her.

[Anonymous]

Just go up to her, talk to her. If you’re attractive enough you have a chance. There’s different rules for different men when it comes to women. She may not let you slap her ass because she’s going to say it’s disrespectful to treat her like a sex object. But if Chad rolls up, she’s going to let him slap that ass all he wants. Just be nice, say hi, introduce yourself. Maybe you notice she’s doing something you also like doing as well.

[osmanthus]

I'm likely the outlier in such case.

Spending time in the presence of the person might be more my-style; talking and experiencing them as they interact with others whether as coworkers, colleagues, etc. getting 'up front and personal' might happen 6 months in with a declarative decision or proclamation of one's intent for the relationship. This isn't to say this guarantees the other party will feel the same way or decide to work with the other but what it does give is an answer. However the person decides to behave from thereon is up to them.

A simple "hello" and a compliment probably won't signal much to me, aside from the fact that this person is behaving decently, and greets people as a generic form of approach.

[dustybiker2]

Loaded question. You have to factor in her past experiences, current mood, the weather and geographical location. Without these just smile and see how she reacts.
If she smiles back say "Hello"
Keep going.

[ProbablyClueless]

The nice thing about conversations is that you don't have to get too fancy with them to make it work. You can get one going by simply saying "hi" and taking notice of something interesting about the person.

[chrissykerdock]

run your hands up her skirt then ask for a blowjob

[liggang]

Well at least I know what works on you lol

[chrissykerdock]

@liggang id love a guy to do that to me

[liggang]

I think you're sweet and thank you for the idea. Maybe some day I will get to employ it and I hope I make a girl feel really good.

[Asker]

🤣🤣that sounds like a herrasment claim waiting to happen

[chrissykerdock]

that;s the problem guys are too afraid to do that

[Asker]

Well for a reason you can end up in jail lol I mean I'd definitely try with you

[liggang]

I've had interactions in the past which were similar and I could have done like she said. It's rare but sometimes you just know that she's yours. Often times women practically tie themselves up and serve themselves to you on a dish.

But the problem is most guys don't know how to recognize that that is happening, and what to do with it. They don't even know how to receive the gift she is giving even if he knows she's giving it to him.

I know I missed out on a lot because of not knowing any better.

[chrissykerdock]

@liggang sometimes that's what girl to be touched and felt up it;s true

[AviatorTom]

@chrissykerdock That will definitely involve the guy's balls. Either she'll play with them or give them a swift kick 😎

[chrissykerdock]

@AviatorTom do you like your balls kissed

[AviatorTom]

@chrissykerdock gently, yes

[chrissykerdock]

@AviatorTom there's no other way but to kiss them gently

[Kit_Kat88]

@liggang you don’t have much experience?

[liggang]

@Kit_Kat88 I have a lot of. experience in the bedroom. What I don't have experience with is getting women to the bedroom in the first place.

[liggang]

@chrissykerdock So I am now talking to a girl. When I asked her out I touched her a bit. Not as much as I think I should have. She definitely wanted me to. But I got her # and we're talking now. I feel like touching her helped. I don't know.

[ApplePie409]

Muster up the courage to reply to your own question. I have a lot of ideas, but it would be wasted on you.

[Sharkstealth]

A girl I most recently talked to I just walked up to her and asked if she had a sister because she looked familiar. She is very shy and beautiful and every time we are near she gets nervous. Other guys look at her but never introduce.

[Nikki1989]

If you can't be interesting, at least be funny.

[LaurenM1997]

You can start of by saying hi how are you? And then see where that goes get to know each other and then maybe ask her on a date

[LordMadara]

🙄 . . . .

[LaurenM1997]

@LordMadara what? I’m only giving advice

[LordMadara]

at what point in a woman's life is she willing to engage in small talk with a stranger (or a man) 🙄

stop the cap , you and I both kno your gender doesn't take kindly to small talk it has to be magical and something out of a romance novel to even warrant attention from your gender 🙄

simplicity is just a rarity amongst your gender 🤷🏽‍♂️
hence you all complicate thingz unneccesarily

but then again these are testing times in this era of GENDER WARS
i guess the men supply is running extremely low and playing mind games is a waste 🤷🏽‍♂️

[LaurenM1997]

@LordMadara stop the cap? First of all YOU are the one that’s coming and commenting on MY opinion if YOU don’t like it don’t comment also why do you hate woman so much? I don’t know who’s hurt you but it’s not me!

[OtterMan68]

compliment something about her: her hair, her smile, her eyes, her clothes, her earrings, etc.

If you know something you have in common, bring that up

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

There isn't a best way. If the chemistry is there it will just happen naturally.

[lorelaimercier]

compliment her to make your intentions clear

[Hannajenky]

Hey there hello how are you

[ariadneR]

"Hi"

[Asker]

After a hi!!

[mayurr]

Bye😂

[baseball_jayden]

Hey how's it going?

[RossyBoi]

Just because friends with her.

[DishLady]

HI..

[MikeyPH85]

Hello...