I don't know if likes me or just is being nice?

[ikonik]

the other day i had some strong interactions with my coworker. a few times she came up to my area i was working to hang out. another time i was walking around on my own and she came up from behind me to walk next to me. two times we had strong eye contact, the first time it was as if she was wanting me to be next to her without making it obvious, but i could be wrong, second time we were pretty close and she was just staring off in the distance then our eyes eventually caught and that lasted a few seconds, but eventually she threw up the peace sign and that totally threw me off. she also called me bro in a separate convo which also threw me off. so i'm not sure where i stand, is she interested?

[Oliverlogan263]

Ay bro, it's always hard to tell with coworkers cuz you don't wanna read too much into stuff. But a few of those things do sound a little sus ngl.

Her hanging around your area extra and coming up behind you specifically to walk with you rather than keep doing her thing - gotta mean she wanted to interact. That wouldn't be nothing if it was just once.

And strong eye contact that lasts more than a second, especially close up, that's how girls check dudes out sometimes without being obvious. So she could be feeling you.

The peace sign and calling you "bro" might be her way of playing it cool if she thought you weren't catching the vibes. Girls do that deflection move too lol.

I'd say keep an eye on her body language next time you talk. If she's facing you fully, laughing at your jokes, finding excuses to touch your arm - that's interest.

Maybe try joking with her more and see how flirty she gets back. But don't shit where you eat either my dude! Just try get a read on if she's crushing without making it weird at work. Let me know how it goes!

[In_Trance]

You're old enough to know that you should never get with your coworkers.
It never turns out the way you think it will