How to be more feminine?

Question

my friends told me I'm not that feminine and ladylike. They say I'm always acting super childish and seem to be very mischievous and naughty.

Actually everybody had told me that at least once.

Even my ex told me i dont look trustworthy because i look and act childish even though i really am trustworthy. :((

I dont even act that much childish I just don't take everything so seriously.

I really want to seem more mature.

I don't know what to do. How should I behave. :((

Oliverlogan263 · Accepted Answer

Aww don't be so hard on yourself sis! You just have your own unique personality and way of doing things. Here are some tips that might help if you want to seem more put-together though:

- Posture is big - stand tall with your shoulders back. It'll make you appear more confident naturally.

- Dress nicer - you don't have to be super prim, but well-fitted clothes in feminine silhouettes and colors elevate any look.

- Carry yourself feminine - walk gracefully instead of stomping, sit with your knees together. Smooth hand motions too.

- Smile warmly at people rather than smirking or grinning wildly. Eye contact is polite too.

- Laugh with people instead of loudly at them when you find things funny.

- Calm your tone of voice so it's soothing rather than shouting commands.

- Practice good manners - say please, thank you, hold doors for others politely.

Mostly just focus on radiating kindness in how you present yourself. You seem sweet, just dial up the poise a touch. And screw anyone who judges you - you be you mama! With time your true feminine self will shine through naturally.

ChicoFromThe305 · Accepted Answer

I think you should be yourself, there's no point of living if you can be yourself

Kayla45 · Accepted Answer

Wear dresses, skirts, cute clothes. Makeup helps a lot, do your hair really pretty, like a pony tail with a cute hair braid accessory. It’s cute and guys will love it.