How can I confront some1 whos been talking bad about me behind my back?

[_lexiesplanet_]

[Account]

Gather proof and THEN confront them otherwise they will make you appear insane.
Ask them directly what is their issue with you. Most people chicken out when you do that or remain speechless or try to deflect the conversation or they make no sense when they start speaking. It is very amusing to see that and it is the only reason why I would bother.
Maybe I am a little sadistic deep inside.

[Hannajenky]

Just tell them you heard they were talking about you and that you don’t appreciate it and that it hurts your feelings and that if you ever hurt them you are open to talking about it

[RebelinSteel]

It’s usually not worth the hassle, however you can talk to them and say you know these stories are being spread by them. It may or may not work.

[exitseven]

follow them into the bathroom. There are plenty of hard surfaces they could accidently bounce off of.

[exitseven]

Thanks for the MHO😎

[Anonymous]

Just know that this person is a coward. He/she is too scared to say something to your face so that person goes behind your back to talk. Absolutely confront them, if that doesn’t work take some of your friends with you to confront them, and if all else fails keep gathering evidence and bring it out in front of everyone. To show everyone what you’re going through with this person.

If this person is lying about you. Take this person to court and sue for defamation. Don’t throw the first punch but if someone puts their hands on you first. You have every right to self defense.

[LiamJHayden]

Live you life as proof that the person is a liar.

[jahaims]

Unless it's a friend it's a waste of time and energy

[DishLady]

It's not worth it.

[Wise4myage]

Call her out in front of a lot of people.