I’m extremely dense. How can I tell if a woman is flirting with me?

[Jackjjackson]

[Anonymous]

You can't. I mean sure there signs but women frequently fake those signs just for attention. So at the end of the day it all comes down to a coin flip. So you might as well just flip a coin to decide what you're going to do. The results will be about the same. And never take rejection personal. Just chuckle and move on. That's the best advice I can give you.

[Jackjjackson]

So I should assume that she is and then perhaps hit on her in a flirting way if I find her attractive? What are some good examples of what I would say if I’m lucky enough to be in that situation please?

[mystomachissick]

You can’t. Hardly anyone can. It’s not a matter of being dense - it’s a matter of not being able to decipher cryptic, MENSA-tier behavior that women themselves can’t even explain most of the time.

[SugarSugarplum]

"My dear, are you... flirting... with me?"