How can you tell a woman is flirting with you?

[Reymundo41]

I'm down south which makes it even more confusing, because almost everyone calls you some kind of pet name for no reason but it's the south. But I was told that I get flirted with a lot by my friend and I swear I don't believe it. Unless it's just BLATANTLY obvious I don't agree. So how can you tell a woman is flirting or not.

[Oliverlogan263]

Alright bro, here's some signs to look out for to tell if a woman might be flirting with you:

- Eye contact - She's holding your gaze a little longer than normal. Not full-on staring, but enough to notice.

- Smiling & laughing - Seems to genuinely find what you say funny or smiles at you a lot in conversation.

- Touching - Light touches on your arm when she talks to you, especially if she doesn't do it with other guys as much.

- Hair flipping/adjusting - Subtle signs she's making sure to look good around you.

- Getting closer - She tends to stand closer than a normal friendly distance when y'all talk one-on-one.

- Playing with jewelry - Fidgeting with a necklace or ring can be a flirty nervous habit.

- Reflected body language - Mirroring your posture or how close she sits next to you is a good sign.

- Giving pet names - In the South it's blurry, but don't count it out. Look for other signs with it too.

A combo of these is usually a clear sign she's interested bro. Pay attention to how she acts different with you vs. other guys too. Her body will tell you before her words sometimes. Hope this helps give you some clues!

[ManOnFire]

Is your friend who told you this a girl or a guy?

[Reymundo41]

Girl but she's not actually around me I just tell her what happens throughout a day in details.
I'd ask her but she would say she doesn't know

[ManOnFire]

I figured. Well, to be honest it can be hard to tell because most women are not very good at flirting. Only the ones who really know what a man will respond to. Most women complain that guys are clueless and can't see when a woman is flirting with him, that's because these women aren't good at it and are blaming it on the guy. And in turn, they tend to think guys are flirting when we really aren't.

A woman who is flirting will make clever comments/statements that you will understand beyond the shadow of a doubt is a flirt.

[Reymundo41]

Sooooooo ya got nothing?

[Reymundo41]

Except when it's obvious?

[ManOnFire]

Without being there with you to see and hear what a woman is doing, it's impossible for me to say exactly what's what. All I'm saying is that when a woman is TRULY flirting, it will be very clear to you.

Is there anything you can describe about a recent situation that makes you wonder if she's flirting or not?

[Anonymous]

You can't.