How come guys don't flirt with me on a date?

[Anonymous]

I've been told I'm pretty and have a hour glass shape, yes I'm on the heavier side I'm chubby but not obese I workout and eat well and I'm trying to loose weight.

However, every time I go out on dates with men I'm meeting online... it feels awkward they don't flirt with me. I'm nice, kind and ask them questions... just feels like a job interview and not a date.

I'm afraid to flirt myself and test the waters... aren't guys suppose to initiate flirting on a date? How do men flirt on dates?

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Women that are far chubbier and dare I say not good looking don't face this problem. So the "out of shape" comments don't cut it.

[BetaBucks]

Most likely odds here are that you are catfishing them by using cleverly taken/edited photos that conceal your weight, and they're surprised when they see you in person. Every younger guy I know has a story like that. Or like ten stories.

[Asker]

I'm not. Some of these guys even say you look exactly like your photos.

[BetaBucks]

Some. And others might feel catfished. Especially if they aren't following up with more dates. And the ones that do have full attraction to you, might not feel like you are attracted to him. Because you don't show signs of interest.

[bowenw]

I usually will flirt with women to get them to go on a date with me, not when we are on a date. Dates for me are usually for having fun together while getting to know each other better.

[bowenw]

Thank you for the MHO. 😊

[Staximus]

I'm not going to flirt with a woman if she shows no signs of attraction

[Asker]

What do you mean? If she's not showing that she's attracted to you?

[In_Trance]

You're most likely not giving them the right signs

[jahaims]

If you are afraid to flirt it's you killing the vibe. It's no one's job to do anything first.

[Anonymous]

Nope. Guys don't like playing amateur dentist.

[Asker]

What?

[Opinion Owner]

You making him pull teeth!😆

[BarryLiverstone]

Because you are not in shape

[Asker]

That's stupid. This would mean no girl that is overweight has any guy flirting with her... and I know that's not true.

[BarryLiverstone]

Not stupid. It’s the reason.

Do you flirt a lot with guys who are overweight?

[BarryLiverstone]

by the way I gave a valid answer to help you. And you didn’t hear me. That’s not valuable