Why do guys approach some girls so much but not others?

[Anonymous]

I never get approached. Guys would stare, check me out or we would stare at each other awkwardly. Vast majority of the time, they wouldn't even smile. Whenever I check a guy out, sometimes he would just hold my stare. It would be the most awkward thing. It just seems like he is just ALWAYS waiting for me to make the first move. Its frustrating because I would keep hearing about other girls getting approached non stop.

But All I get are guys waiting for me to make the first move.

He would turn his head to stare at me as I walk by, as if he is waiting for me to respond. Or I would take one glance at him, we would lock eyes for a moment. I break eye contact for just a second then his eyes fleet the other way permanently. They would do absolutely anything but say hi or even smile.

And to be honest, from my experience, its the average looking girls that get approached most of the time. I don't think I am drop dead gorgeous but I am pretty cute.

In the past, only crazy, mentally ill men would approach me. But I don't count them since they're not sane

[Anonymous]

According to pretty much all women all men are just gazing into every girl’s eyes. Or maybe it’s just their imagination that’s why they aren’t actually approaching. Women seem to think everything a man does is flirting. Maybe they’re really not interested. They may happen to look in your direction at the same time for a mere second but to you it’s an eternity where the two of you happen to look each others in the eyes. Maybe you’re not as cute as the other women who are around. Maybe you’re too old for them. Maybe you look mean. Unapproachable. Maybe they’re just out to look. There’s a lot of reasons why.

[Asker]

men don't tend to look into the eyes of a woman they aren't interested in. men usually avoid eye contact with women they aren't interested in since they don't want to send the wrong message

[Opinion Owner]

lol so you think

[Asker]

Because its the truth

I've also had another male user on here say the same thing. He doesn't like giving women the wrong impression

[Asker]

You would have to be socially inexperienced as hell to not know this

[jahaims]

You are either very attractive so most guys don't think they have a chance or you have don't approach me vibes.

[beefcakebradybatson]

We handsome Bradys don't generally approach plain Janes.

[Asker]

You have to approach because you aren't actually handsome. Handsome dont have to approach, women come to them first

[Anonymous]

Those women are putting in the effort.