Have you tried to turn someone off?

[Anonymous]

1. Have you ever talked down about yourself to someone that is really into you so you can turn them off? Or would you talk down about yourself to them because you are looking for an ego boost? 2. And if you liked them back would you talk down about yourself?

[Anonymous]

Yes. I push them away doing so. Even if I like them back i do so. It is one kind of me testing them their limits and their intentions or there true colours to know what they really want from me, how strongly he wants me, what is his actual feelings for me etc.

[Asker]

Yeah I get that. Especially if I feel doubtful in their feelings for me.

[Opinion Owner]

Yes. Also I only wanted the serious one. The one who actually could like me for who I am not for how i look. The one who could like me with my ugly side too only only just my best part. I know I could adjust myself as he wants or needs but I want to check who is willing to adjust for me too.

[Exinth]

I call that manipulating and not getting to the point of what you want. I regret doing that to someone they liked me and i liked them back but i "tested" their feelings for me and they stopped liking me so dont do that

[Crazzyyworld]

All the time.. I think all women are lesbian!! I am a transwoman acting sometimes looking like a woman. However girls crush on me and it’s annoying so I try to make them turn off. It doesn’t work! They like me anyway!

[Stevepro68]

Fine line between confidence and self deprecation and or being negative. It's a fine line.

[Asker]

Is it though? You didn’t really answer my question.

[Stevepro68]

That's because depending how someone frames it we have probably at some point done all those things. So the answer is sometimes yes sometimes no.

[NicholasRedone]

Shrugs.
Its probably happened a few times 🤗😜
I also can't stop eavesdroppers 😐😁

[NicholasRedone]

Some people also can change a person's mind. One minute they seemed cute or hot or nice from afar - up close it's like weather change - ❄️🥶

[Tomisworthless]

👉😈👈

[D_Bone_Steak]

I usually talk shit about them because it works better. Like if some fat chunk is laying it on thick, they'll take something like me talking down about myself as an opportunity to be that one that says everything is okay. Naw... I'm going to call her fat, say I can smell her stinky fat pussy from the other side of the table, and play a guessing game about how many sexually transmitted diseases she's gotten over time.

Now I will talk down about myself... I do it for reasons I like to call, 'lower expectations.' Like I got a pretty big dick right... so I'll say shit like I have a micro-penis and my dick is super small. What ends up happening is this look of surprise and relief on the girl's face when I pull my pants down and let my monster pop up in her face. She'll say some shit like "that isn't small at all" and I got to admit... I'm going to use the small dick excuse every time I beat the shit out of her cervix. "Why are you complaining, you know I have a really small dick!"

Anyways, yes I do talk down about myself because it makes things funny which = fun. When it comes to getting a chick to leave me alone though... I'm going to rip on her until she's so sick of my shit that she doesn't even want me to talk to her.

[Anonymous]

I would talk myself "down," so they don't get infatuated with an image of me that doesn't exist. If you're gonna like me, know what you're getting yourself into. The personal baggage is the size of camper and I don't want any guy thinking I'm some perfectly polished person, even if I'm doing a good job carrying myself that way.

[Silver158]

So had a bit of banter with a woman at work about 10 years ago. and when we worked together again a couple of weeks later I noticed she was watching me while I was working. So... I started asking her questions. Just question after question.

This is guaranteed to turn off any woman.

[Gwendoline]

Yes. All the time. The man is insatiable

[FreyaRed]

Playing a crazy domina bitch. yeah quite a lot. Unfortunately lot of guys have a fetish for this behavior

[OneViewpoint]

All the time. I'm a master at shutting down conversations and attempts at flirting from women I don't want to interact with.

[serious]

Yes I have. Quite a few times but in a good and mature way only.

[Nikki1989]

Why would I do that?

Weird!

[Anonymous]

I know how to not draw attention to myself so I reduce the number of people approaching me who I don't want to have to deal with.

[Tomisworthless]

by not trying to be noticed i stand out for being creepy ugly and gay. People won't approach or speak to me unless theyre insulting me , laughing at me or trying to bring something negative to my attention ie "we aren't laughing at you" when your doing own thing not even paying attention but she tells you that so then you become aware that they were actually laughing at you and want you to know and feel bad

[Ariesman81]

Yeah... it usually has the opposite effect though.

[Asker]

Yeah to what answer? #1 or #2?

[Ariesman81]

I don't need an ego boost.

[Asker]

So you would talk down about yourself to turn someone off?

[Ariesman81]

Yeah. I'm toxic like that.

[Asker]

At least you admit it 😆

[Brucewayne123]

Yes. When she couldn’t take a hint I had to make sure she understood I wasn’t interested.

[linka_pat307]

Yess multiple times.. I mean I am not ready for anything real

[Pohjolan]

Don't have to. Gals hardly go so far that I'd have to say no.

[hello4433]

I've told them I'm taken or engaged. And it's a big red flag for most people

[princeofromance]

No, you should never talk down about yourself to anyone at anytime.

[Maria0002]

yes telling them I’m on that time of month.

[itsannalee]

Yeah, i told someone that i’m ladyboy.

[Tomisworthless]

first person youve ever been truthful with

[itsannalee]

Said an ugly broke man with big monkey nose🥱🥱

[12karen]

Yes And it didn't work

[Tomisworthless]

for those creeps like me its best to be as cruel and offensive as possible you want us to learn our place in society at a young age so we dont go around putting women in uncomfortable situations

[12karen]

I'm glad you are self aware

[Tomisworthless]

very wise

[Misscouincouin]

I've did the worst turn offs.. didn’t work 😭

[UrsulaY]

No. I prefer honesty...

[chocolatetwopointo]

yeah