Have you ever pushed people away from you?

[Anonymous]

I am not meaning literally.

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What if it was done by accident or subconsciously? Not deliberately.

[DizzyDesii]

Yes when i am completely done dealing with someone, i will try to push them away politely but if they keep insisting on sticking around, my words will get a bit more aggressive. And its not one of those “its not you, its me” situations. If i push them away, its because its them and being around them any longer solely turns me off (and i dont even mean sexually)

[DizzyDesii]

I dont unintentionally push people away because i know i’d risk losing them forever. Its easier to purposely push them away because you know for sure you no longer want to be around them

[Irunya41]

Sometimes I think by ignoring advances from men it means their distant. But I only ignore when I don't want to just say no and hurt their feeling

[Asker]

A girl said clear no to me. I was happy about it. As, now I knew what she thought exactly. And I did not have any hopes from her. Ignoring people will only increase their curiosity and they may end up obsessing you rather than liking you. I think it is better to be more clear about such things, because they can cause unintended peoblems later on.

[Irunya41]

thanks for the advise I'm never sure how to handle these thing

[OlderAndWiser]

No, I have the opposite tendency to hold on to people for too long.

[Andres77]

Pushed? No.
Run away from? Absolutely!

[NathanDavis]

nope, not in this sense... the couple of times I´ve had to part ways with someone, we talked about it and it was mutual and because it was really needed, or there was no option really

[Yucy_Gluttony]

Oo yes, a dark time in my life, over it now!

[Asker]

You recovered! Congrats!

[Yucy_Gluttony]

ABSOBLOODYLUTELY!! :3

[TrillXHippy]

You don’t mean literally so no

[Agape93]

Yeap

[Blackcupcake]

yeah