I was dating this guys but u fortunately it was long distance, he has never had a girlfriend before and was very inexperienced in bed. He told me he has an inferiority complex and has been to shy to ask out girls.
he was sweet and caring and supported me in finding a job to move to his city, the day i got an offer he told me he's looking for a flat with a (male) friend and that he doesn't want to be the only reason I come to this city and that he doesn't feel as strong as i do and we should separate ways.
It kills me as we were always laughing so much together and it was so easy, like being with your best friend but they are hot and you want to sleep with them.
I really think he is SO scared of being rejected as he feels really insecure deep down and won't even let anyone in, i told him exactly that in a nice way, i hope he works on it even if it won't bring us together, he'll be happier in the future
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I think everyone goes through this in some form. The hardest part is, its also the ploy players use to make you doubt yourself and they hope it pushes/scares you into a sexual position with them (players like to make you fear losing them; Saying that they also like you to be convinced their not doing that, its why its considered 'art' by some).
What add's to the complexity, is guys know that a girl will feel under huge pressure if they change their lives and the only reason they change it is for the girl; So even decent guys will seek to reasure the girl in question they are doing it for them, not for her (also, a guy moving to be with a girl is concerning for the girl as they may end up with a guy who is mooching of them or being overly clingy).
Based on your description though, it sounds like this guy was after some non commital sex from you (just saying what I read between the lines). The fact he's changed his mind after hooking up with you and the 'inexperienced in bed' sounds like a line. It might be he is inexperienced, but he would confess that reluctantly.
Though its always possible I'm just reading your biases in the way you describe things.