Have you ever pushed someone away because you thought you wouldn't have a chance with them or?

[Anonymous]

or maybe because they didn't fit into the life you imagined for yourself despite of liking them?

First part of the question is more about pushing someone away as a self-protection as you think they friendzoned you.
The second part is about someone who you really like but they are not your type.
Have you ever put a break on the relationship in these situation or just went with the flow, try it anyway?

[n4meAL]

have you ever met someone who was very nice to you and he was really attracted to you, and he was very nice to your parents but not your type thats how i felt a few years ago.

And to be honest i also felt a little pity and attracted to him but in the end somehow i didn't know she suddenly moved house (so this person is actually a new person who lives with her aunt to accompany her because her aunt's husband works out of town and rarely comes home, and now this girl is back at her house in a different city I don't know why she went and my whatsapp was blocked lol.

[Anonymous]

I’ve tried to give a chance to men I wasn’t interested in to see if it’d work, it didn’t so far, cause I wasn’t interested to begin with. I gave them a chance cause I knew they really liked me and would treat me right. But if there is some type of attraction there it could work. Usually the ones who like you more than you like them are the best ones and should be given a chance.


I’ve also pushed men away even when I really liked them, out of fear that they’d hurt me.

[dustybiker]

I would rather life B-slap me and tell me what it wants of me than to let myself get to a point I self-sabotage. There is no worse enemy then that voice inside your own head. Feed it when it’s kind. When it threatens you like this. Ignore it and go up to the man and ask him if he’s in a relationship or not. Don’t create regrets.