Im attracted to my best freinds dad, im now 18, can I pursu him?

[Jefffmerrick]

[Anonymous]

Pursuing a romantic relationship with your best friend's father carries significant risks, including the potential destruction of your friendship, severe family conflict, a problematic power imbalance due to the age gap and existing family dynamics, and potential social ostracization, making it crucial to prioritize the ethical implications and potential long-term damage to your relationships before considering such a course of action.

[Jefffmerrick]

Wow that’s not a dictionary response! This is complicated!!! That’s a broad generalization of an answer.

[bowenw]

There are no rules about who you can pursue. If you're worried about what your friend may think, ask her for her honest opinion.

[bowenw]

Thank you for the MHO. 😊

[Anonymous]

I don’t recommend it. This could damage your relationship with your friend and age gaps that large are never good news.

[loveyouoak]

Okay, the charisma of mature men is fascinating. However, you definitely should not do something like that.

[Joshydavid25]

No, that'll end up being a weird dynamic between the 3 of you.. Might even destroy your friendship..

[molonski2]

It says you are 25 ? You can do whatever you wish , pursue him for sure , absolutely.

[knottyguy]

I say no, it's nothing but trouble. Just keep it real and simple. Lust for him from afar.

[LONERLONLEY666]

Helllllllllllll no sorry

[Jefffmerrick]

Respect!! Thank you

[ChicoFromThe305]

You are gonna ruin your friendship

[alice55]

No you shouldn't

[slatyb]

Is he single? Maybe ask your friend?

[Anonymous]

Why would you do that to your friend?

[Jefffmerrick]

I’m thinking she might possibly be ok with it

[Opinion Owner]

I can’t think of any woman who’d be ok with her friend, let alone her BEST friend trying to date her dad. You’re acting like this is something you can’t help but that’s a completely selfish not to mention a total lie. You could stop going around her father so much but you only care about your wants, not destroying a friendship and hurting your friend in the process.

[Anonymous]

You are 25 jeff !
Stop lying 🤥

[Jefffmerrick]

Ok fine, 2006 not 2000 , online info I always say 1/1/2000

[Jefffmerrick]

Pretty much the same scenario though, I don’t know how to navigate the next few years while being around him so much I feel like I’m gonna subconsciously hint to him all the time and it won’t be fair because he’s a stand-up guy and he’s always been good to me and never once made a sexual comment even when my comments are obviously towards that

[Jefffmerrick]

But God dammit I can’t help myself now now that it’s legal

[Jefffmerrick]

And yeah, that’s not my name that’s his name

[Anonymous]

So you are 18 today.

Interesting!

[Jefffmerrick]

Since December 2025

[Jefffmerrick]

I’ve actually always had a crush on him and now I’m wondering if it’s OK that I pursue him even though he is my best friend’s dad

[Jefffmerrick]

No, since Christmas day

[hello4433]

No, I have a better option though

[Jefffmerrick]

And what is that. Keep in mind the importance of keeping him m as a best friend ( second best friend) . I need this guy in my life for forever!!

[Jefffmerrick]

And no I’m not a dude

[hello4433]

I was gonna say sleep with a different man who is a dad and handsome

[TheSpaceGnome]

Bad idea.