Why do I find it hot knowing a guy I’m attracted to is old enough to be my dad?

[Anonymous]

And it’s not because I can call him daddy! In all seriousness why do you think this is? I don’t go for guys that look anything like my actual dad too

[andreasderjuengere]

With ''Dad-age'' comes a certain -emm- expectation from others; that could be reliability, settledness, maturity, ''experience'' and such. These are traits that you seek, perhaps.

It's maybe just a phantasy (similar to the 'yellow-fever' :D ); but as long as no one gets hurt, I see no fault in it.

[Voldra]

You're not the only one, plenty of younger women are attracted to older guys if he's the right older guy. The last one I was seeing was 23. I think it has to do with women maturing faster. The thing I can't stand about younger women is they come off confused about what they're after / like to play games. I lose any & all attraction when that happens.

[mandyfire98]

I get it. It's just a turn on. I was hooking up with a single dad of one of the girls I teach. He was 46, I was 23.

[Th3ft]

I’ve always wondered about this scenario. That’s really interesting!! Both of your opinions!

[computer_nerd]

@mandyfire98 how was that?

[mandyfire98]

It was great. The age difference was definitely noticeable because he was old enough to be my dad. My dad is only 5 years older than him actually lol. I definitely enjoyed it though.

[JPresidente]

Was he experienced and had some good techniques?

[mandyfire98]

@JPresidente

He knew what he was doing in the bedroom for sure.

[SnowedIn]

Because you find older men hot/attractive. Nothing wrong with that. In the same way that some people find younger (legal) people hot/attractive. You're good!

[TheSpaceGnome]

We don't know, you would have to tell us that.

People will try to psychoanalyze you, but thats pointless.

You may simply find the look attractive, or have a kink for caretaking type guys. Or you may have weird incest fantasies.

[Anonymous]

Ok obvious question was your dad in your life since you were born?

[Asker]

Yes he was

[Opinion Owner]

Did he actually take part in your life?

[20yearsolder]

Did you have a great father growing up? Is he no longer with you? Typically a woman wants a father figure in her life.

[Berethor]

Maybe you have daddy issues or you a gold digger?

[JPresidente]

Because we older guy's have more confidence and experience in certain matters than most younger guys and women find confident men attractive.

[Wise4myage]

Because its just what you like and want? Their doesn't have to be a reason.

[peterrezeeek]

may u feel u r important and sexy to let him look at u and ride u..

[Iron_Man]

You like what you like

[MrTaboo]

Full maturity on guys is hot for women/girls.

[Anonymous]

maybe because he treats you good