WWhy do guys get rude when turned down?

[Anonymous]

Let's start out saying I'm a married woman when a man trys hitting on me or flirting I turn them down nicely saying I'm married but they automatically get rude and start saying things like I don't know how someone can desire you because your fat or go after my husband which isn't cool like ik I'm a bigger girl not Def not any 300 pound person

[Anonymous]

It goes both ways. People in general just don’t like being rejected. So to save their self the embarrassment or pretend like they weren’t really interested in you they throw things out to try to hurt you back. Women will say things like you’re short, you have small dick event, you’re a brokie. It’s a defense mechanism.

[NicholasRedone]

Heart break 💔 you gotta also be able to put yourself in their shoes or if you had been rejected by your man you're now hitched your wagon to, you'd be a little taken aback and a little sad too wouldn't you? 💍 Especially if you invested all that time and interest and then you're told "oh I'm actually taken" - it's like a face palm shock 😲 😦

[NicholasRedone]

Women do the same when turned down 👇🏻👎🏻 or they see him with a woman and realise.

[Abbycado]

They don't like rejection so this is how they can exact what little revenge they can in the moment is my guess.

[Summeroflove]

Well I think if they had a wife they would want their wives to be loyal but some people have a sense of entitlement they believe that they are entitled to who they want even if their own standards are high.

People just can’t handle being told no. Personally I would rather someone shut me down kindly then just lead me on but some people just don’t work like that. Sure, being rejected may hurt but especially if you don’t know the person just move on. Some people choose to be babies.

I’ve noticed too with certain women if they start flirting with me and I don’t flirt back they get really catty and bitchy with me.

[serious]

This is only for those men who cannot take rejection properly. These type of men have huge egos. I think they do this type of behavior to satisfy their ego and pride and also they do it because it gives them an opportunity to take out their frustration.

Of course this is all cheap behavior

[jahaims]

Immature people do that because they can't handle rejection. They feel inadequate so they lash out to cope.

[Shy_Steve]

Because women want men to chase, compete, and risk rejection, Then act surprised when some react badly to constant rejection.

[wkhan_87]

They want destroy you emotionally
Just don't care about them

[Stevepro68]

That is extremely sad for them.

[NicholasRedone]

And women forget in those moments if it was a hot guy rejecting them lol 😆😆

[Jackguyy]

Not all do but they feel disappointed

[NicholasRedone]

Same goes for women if the shoes were the other way