How can a married man stay away from unwanted and unexpected flirting by a lady?

[Anonymous]

[Anonymous]

Tell your wife. LOL. If that other lady takes it too far, your wife knows what kind of woman she is and what's she's out there doing. I'd tell my partner. I'm not going down for something I'm not doing. I'd want my partner to know that I am 100% loyal to them, and honest and have no secrets in regards to our relationship and my feeling for them.

[Vevv123]

Spot on. This is the perfect solution actually because now the wife would know and there is no confusion. Shows that he obviously doesn’t want trouble. Plus she could maybe plop into the interactions they’re having. Lol that’d be fun. Make the lady feel uncomfortable.

[Jooying]

That's not something you can control. All you can do is to not give any reaction.

[Dreamclouds]

Sure you can control and no reaction is not a solution since such wonen can be really annoying and persistent

[MrChinaski]

Why would you not want a woman to flirt with you? You get to choose what to do in response. And if you live in a 1950s style marriage then politely decline. It's still nice that someone put themselves at risk to show you that they find you attractive.

[SteveSmith1985]

It's pretty easy to show disinterest. Just don't flirt back, and she should take the hint. If she says/does anything overt, then you tell her you're married. This is something that shouldn't be an ongoing problem. Just be clear in your reactions to her, and if she persists, call-her-out and say "I'm married"

[DishLady]

It's not a perfect science, obviously, because you can't control other people, but you CAN control yourself. You just walk away or divert discussion topics to your wife (and kids if you have kids).

[AviatorTom]

Easy, keep looking at the wedding ring on your finger.

[Razp_Sorbet]

Just stay oblivious. I feel like a lot of men have no idea when a woman is flirting with him. I've watched women flirt with my fiance a few times some right in front of me and he had no idea what was happening. It was quite hilarious. He's also told me about an interaction with someone because he was unsure and I burst out laughing because she was flirting SO hard.

[PrincessC16]

Stay the *uck away! TELL her that you're NOT interested! You must possess this power. It's a trap! Don't do it.

[Asker]

TYSM

[GallopAcrossEurope]

Drop the fact you're married into a conversation, and make some sort of comment adoring your spouse (Oh like she made a gorgeous dinner, or something else that she did that was nice). That'll let the unexpected flirter know their attempts won't go anywhere.

[ClaircognizantEmpath]

hey, if your truly wanting to repel tell your wife what is going on immediately... she will deal with it... quick question, does she know you well enough to feel secure you are a happily married man and there is no chance of you responding in reality? ie she feels safe? where and when is this happening? is she texting you etc

[MrChinaski]

Do not tell your wife. Be a man and handle the situation yourself.

[SeriouslyNotSerious]

Easy. Swing your hips when you're walking. Get your nails done. 💅 Put a tinted lip balm.

But seriously, you can just say "No, I'm actually married." If the serpent don't get it, then say your wife will just talk to her. 😃👍

[Sammygirl9287]

Tell them you are married and not interested

[Asker]

She already know

[exitseven]

Get old. After you are 50 you will find that any attention that you got from the opposite sex will go to zero.

[Anonymous]

Put your meat in her mouth she’ll be unable to speak and therefore unable to flirt
(Honey I swear that’s the only reason I did it)

[TheSpaceGnome]

Other than staying home, you can't, just reject them, its not that hard dude.

[MikeTheBartender]

Ask your wife for a threesome. Problem solved.

[Atd21970]

Avoid them like the plague, unless you are looking for a divorce. Be honest with your wife as well.

[WonderingManII]

It depends where it happens. If it is at work, report her.

[Anonymous]

I'm not married but it's easy for me, no girl would ever flirt with me.

[Mia03]

I have an idea, but then someone is going to jail.

[Vampirelover_12]

Easy, don't treat women like objects

[MrChinaski]

What does that mean to you? Genuine question.

[Nikki1989]

They can't.

[Keyboardkat]

Yes they can! Our brain is in our head, not in something else. If a guy has a nice wife and family, why would he jeapardize that by fooling around? He has a lot to lose. Is it worth it for a few minutes of pleasure? You have that at home. Don't do it! Otherwise the day will come when you look in the mirror and spit at yourself!

[PeachyPie93]

Tell her to FUCK OFF.. Issue sorted lol

[EmmiL]

Ignore

[Asker]

Am doing but she don't understand

[DrPepper12]

Tell her he doesn't play for that team.

[Anonymous]

Ignore them , it’s really that simple