Guys, What makes someone "adorably sexy"?

[DishLady]

[SixFootSexy]

What makes a woman "adorably sexy" is when she's youthful, kind and nurturing, but also in touch with her femininity, takes care of her body and wears clothes to accentuate her curves.

A kid sister of a best friend admitted she had a huge crush on me this year. It was conflicting because although I always thought she was adorable; I hadn't seen her in years and now she's grown up with curves and finally more than adorable, sexy even.

I wouldn't do anything about it, because of my friend, but I have a feeling if I wanted to pursue her romantically, she would be more than accommodating.

[DishLady]

The bold preamble tracks in my case.

Aww... and you don't think you'll try to ask her out?

[SixFootSexy]

I would but she's 24, so 13 year age gap. But she is a trained chef and very good in the kitchen. I know she desires motherhood, at least a few children. Would be tough in this economy. Plus, we live a few states away so there's also the long distance factor which I've tried before and it's not doable for me. If circumstances were different, we lived closer and I didn't have money worries... sure.

[DishLady]

Aha… yeah, that might be a thing…

I’d show a “passive interest” to see if she’s into it if I were you. You never know…

[SixFootSexy]

May I DM you?

[DishLady]

Sure, go for it.

[Cormac995]

In a weird way I think I know what you mean by this and things that I find "Adorably sexy" about a girl include but are not limited to...

1. Glasses that suite them.

2. A soft voice.

3. A nice smile.

4. Skirts or long dresses the more colorful the better in my opinion and I think floral dresses suite woman best but that's just me.

5. Bubbly personality shy ones too both are "Adorably Sexy" just in different ways.

6. Showing genuine enthusiasm in a feminine way.

7. Blushing after a compliment or something similar.

8. Small pecks on the cheek.

These are off the top of my head and not necessarily in this order but that's my list so far.

[HawkPerception]

I think it's basically just being cute and feminine. Showing how much you care for your man, wanting to always be in their space and wanting to touch them, wanting to please them or make them happy, making attempts to look cute for them, acts of services like cooking their favourite foods, etc.

[HawkPerception]

I think that would make any man want to jump a woman's bones

[DishLady]

You'd THINK that was the answer. But I was listening to a guy who was going on and on about something terrible he was about to do that made me feel genuinely sad. I told him I didn't want to talk about it... told him he should probably go chat up somebody else... For some reason he found that -- and possibly some face I was making -- "adorably sexy". I found it odd. Possibly he was just saying any possible words to get out of the proverbial doghouse.

[OlderAndWiser]

Cuteness without overt attempts to be seductive, and a little bit of shyness and innocence.

[Finchie40]

When she is beautiful to my eyes and has a caring loving heart and gives the same way she wants to receive , and she is loyal and honest and respectful, and isn’t selfish at all , she wears my shoes the same way I wear hers when it comes to making decisions, she knows what it means to be in a relationship. That to me is adorably sexy and a girl I would want by my side as much as possible

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

I need something in order to relate to her specifically, otherwise she isn't going to be sexy to me. Subjectively, I find her adorable when she's witty, when she's goofy, when she's gracious, be it mentally or demeanor based, when she makes me laugh, it's a lot of possibilities I have, to find her adorable, guess who's in love lol...

I can't disconnect her sexiness from how adorable she is, it is because I find her adorable that I find her sexy. It's all intertwined to me, in my perceptions. So, she's always adorable and sexy at the same time. Voilà :)

[foxsquirrell]

It usually comes in a whole package. So its not one part of the body or another, but that sort of aura a person a girl in this case has around her. Its innate and usually it is all around her. So if she has a cute face she will probably have a hot body as well to compliment her cute face as it is the product of the same genes. :)

[Joshydavid25]

I usually don't care for adorable and sexy to go together.. But I guess somebody that's cute and sweet looking just to enough to still make your loins tingle.. Maybe like a short woman with a cute puffy face, but has a curvy body..

[AndrésC64]

That's a good question. It's hard to put a finger on, but I can give a couple examples, Milana Vayntrub who played Lily for AT&T. Julia Louis-Dreyfus who played Elaine in Seinfeld. I think it's a combination of looks and personality. Good looking but not overly sexy and a quirky, fun personality.

[AndrésC64]

I'd also include Anna Kendrick and Alexandra daddario. Both very good looking but not what I would call overtly sexy.

[Sam1133]

If her gag user name start with "dish" she is adorable sexy...

[DishLady]

Aww. Thanks bro.

[MJVillarama]

It’s that mix of confidence, playfulness, and charm — someone who’s cute, flirty, and genuine at the same time.

[serious]

That is really tough to answer. In short the answer is a combination of both physical and personality factors.

What exactly it maybe is tough to say.

[DishLady]

It IS tough to say. Someone said it to me again a couple of days ago and I’m still stumped as to what made him think/say that.

[EmtAsh]

Not trying. Simple things like you wearing little booty shorts and a hoodie, with you hair in a messy ponytail. So adorable. I will laso let you in on a secret they may get me killed. We love it when you whine. I'm not talking the whine to get your ways stuff. I'm talking about the natural frustrated whine you ladies get when things just dont go right. So damn cute.

[DishLady]

Seriously? I was taught never to whine.

[Jove79]

I girl who’s confident.. if she likes a guy, but she’s shy, and she builds the courage to approach him.

[Nahid1707]

Nice question, so “adorably sexy “ to me would mean she would be adorable by being herself and same time this shows she is desirable where she shows her natural personality.

[MannMitAntworten]

For me it is more or less our interactions together which is apparently obvious to others too.

[slatyb]

Youthful appearance and a clear desire for the company of men.

[DishLady]

"Clear desire" ... Hmm.

[Anonymous]

When they’re so sweet like sickeningly so like when they wear pajamas and snuggle up to you and her boobs press up against you and she doesn’t even really notice or care cause she’s not very sexual she’s just there being sweet having no idea how much of a turn on it is for you

point is my girlfriend is the sweetest angel ever so far we’re on 5 years of dating

[Stefan04]

I oddly find it adorable if she’s somewhat clumsy

[Mark987]

The way they carry themselves most importantly. I like someone with a nice smile, and who can also hang around with your friends, and she gets along with everyone. I also someone that can cheer you up when you're down.

[DonaldDarko]

Oxytocin and delusion coupled with wishful thinking.

[ilistengood]

A 7 figure bank account did it for my ex girlfriend and her new hubby.

[DishLady]

Yikes...

[ilistengood]

I honestly really couldn't fault her , she was legally blind , which meant of course not getting a lot of really good jobs and no retirement to speak of. We're still friends , im glad she's not having to worry about how she's going to live. Especially with today's cost of living.

[DishLady]

Hmm.

[Grond21]

I can picture it pretty clearly, but it's hard to pin down descriptively.

[DishLady]

Seems like a common problem, lol. You can give it a shot if you like.

[Grond21]

It's a combination of two (ish) things. One is overt sexiness. Whatever that particular man finds sexy, she has. Then, in addition, she is acting in a cute way. This doesn't have to be naive, although it could be. It's more like it is affectionate, youthful, and authentic. That way of acting is the cute part. ( There are always caveats, because affection doesn't have to be part of it necessarily. Say if she's getting adorably angry at something).

The other part that can be present is if, physically, she is already a combination of sexy and cute. Then acting in a cute way combounds the whole effect drastically

[DishLady]

I'll have to unpack "overt sexiness" in a separate question, perhaps.

"Whatever that particular man finds sexy, she has." Ok... That makes sense to me.

Authentic and youthful also track. The cute/affectionate part is where I don't see whatever the guy was seeing. I was very pissed at the guy for not being mindful about someone sho should be extremely important in his life.

"A combination of sexy and cute" is also mentally a stretch for me to consider since I was basically just upset at him, meanwhile he was ordering apps and stuff to bribe me into smiling and he was saying the stupidest things till I laughed but told him I was really mad at him. To me sexy would have looked different, so I don't "get" whatever it was he was seeing to say that to me, you know?

[Grond21]

Yes, it is, but keep in mind that these things can get complex to explain.

Good

So this was said to you? It can be harder to judge ourselves in this kind of situation. Perhaps your way of expressing anger was something that he perceived as cute.

Assuming you are the kind of sexiness that he likes, then I can see how that would be kind of cute. It is... Fun when a woman who is mad at us is still willing to laugh.

[DishLady]

If you can take a stab at explaining it I'd really appreciate it.

Yeah, it was said to me. But I was very sporty, had just danced my ass off at a festival for hours and was sitting quietly at a place with a friend when this guy plopped down next to me. We were talking about out beverage choices, debating which one was sweeter (which was lighthearted enough). But then he launched into this unsolicited very cold-hearted dialogue about his son and my heart went out to the son. (It's very complicated and I don't want to get upset again, but the gist of it is that he wanted me to "school him" into what to do with his son, which was odd bc he doesn't know me at all. He was trying to coax an answer out of me and then a smile, etc. I've never seen anything like that before. Very odd to me. But the more I looked at him like he was nuts the more he smiled and leaned in and so on.)

He told me I was adorably sexy and sweet and blah blah. I cleared my throat and told him I needed to excuse myself and go to the loo. He asked to walk me to the loo "to make sure I was safe and protected." I gave him a look that made even the bartender laugh. My friend and I left shortly afterwards.

[Grond21]

I would be happy to but do you mind moving this to private messages?

Okay, that context really helps. This guy sounds like a creep, and I wouldn't take anything he says at face value. He knows what words to say and there's no reason to trust that he actually meant them. It's clear he was trying to manipulate you.

[DishLady]

Go for it.

(Of course he was a creep. He was some dude who sat at a bar and was chatting us up, unexpectedly setting off onto this negative topic for some reason. I just found that one comment interesting bc other guys have said this about me but this is the most recent so what was going on was fresh in my mind.)

[Grond21]

Great.

Ah, yes, I can see where you were coming from then

[robocop666]

Denise Milani

[Grond21]

She is, but how do you put it in the words?

[DishLady]

Is it more the boobs or the posture and facial expression?

[Grond21]

Each guy will answer differently. The for her it is the boobs, posture, hair, legs, and facial features that give the sexiness part. She is a smaller woman, which helps the adorableness aspect. But for me to be adorably sexy like that, it cannot be discerned only from a picture. It has to be her acting in a cute way, mixed with a sexy body.

That is a deadly combination

[DishLady]

@Grond21 Hmm. So I'm trying to keep in mind how it was applied when I heard it. The posture etc weren't particularly coy or cute or anything along the lines of this pic. It's what's throwing off my understanding of the expression.

[Grond21]

That is fair. This picture is much more of the sexiness than the cuteness. I'd say 85%-15%

[DishLady]

@Grond21 Lol. That's bc you're imagining the boobs without the sweater on. Snap out of it...

[Grond21]

I wasn't, so don't you go putting the idea in my head! Lol

[DishLady]

@Grond21 HAHAHA. Sorry...

[Grond21]

Tsk tsk.😆

In all seriousness, aside from any mental undressing, she is a beautiful and sexy woman.

[DishLady]

@Grond21 Yeah, no question there.

[Grond21]

Indeed

[Luopio27]

Zoe Parker!
She is one of the prettiest porn stars I've dreamed of!

[CubaPirate]

Look in the mirror 🪞

[DishLady]

😂 Thanks bro.

[MasterKS]

Her body and attitude!

[DishLady]

What sort of attitude?

[MasterKS]

@DishLady confident about herself.

[DishLady]

Hmm. Even if she's disagreeing?

[MasterKS]

@DishLady why not?

[DishLady]

🤷🏻‍♀️ It just seems illogical...

[MasterKS]

@DishLady may be but not for me... its she who decide how she wants to show herself.

[DrPepper12]

Bright eyes, a big smile & youthful face

[Pterodon]

For me the girl next door type

[PaleDale]

Someone who likes to be held.

[Anonymous]

Combination of her looks and personality.

[exitseven]

Flannel pajamas.