Is it worth reaching out?

[vcordero123]

I graduated college in May and my last semester there, this guy started coming to the student org I was in. At first we were casual friends/acquaintances, but toward the end of the semester, we started hanging out and talking more, so I started crushing on him. At this point, we were a few weeks from graduation, so I decided not to say anything. But lately, I've been reflecting on the semester and wondering "what if? I'm considering reaching out, but I'm not sure what to say or whether I should tell him how I felt.

[Hardon-Collider]

That 'what if' thinking is a waste of time. It's a form of spiritual weakness, an indulgence in the past. Stop it. Focus on what is real and present. You've moved on. He's moved on. The energy you're wasting on wondering what might have been would be far better spent on the real opportunities in your life right now. Don't live in a fantasy of what could have been. Live in the reality of what is.

[dwreborn]

Just reach out to see what's up you don't have to put yourself right out there just hang out see where things could go then if your comfortable say something then it won't be so awkward and as painful if he says no

[Nikki1989]

You don't need to lead with a big confession about this person. A simple and friendly message that reconnects you is a great place to start.

[ItsAshh2009]

I think you should reach out to him