Flirting

Was my “flirting” too blunt? Is he into me?

I’ve (f27) been in rehab for the past 4 and a half weeks and i kind of developed a crush on one of the therapists (male, around 30). He’s not my PT, i have a female PT, i only have group sessions with him (in the pool and sometimes pilates). Today I was just chilling outside on a bench before my pilates session and i always look for a spot where there are no people around and a few minutes after i sat down my crush came and sat down on the bench next to me for his break and to eat his lunch so we chatted a bit, he even remembered that i had to go out of town today for an appointment and asked me how it went. Anyway the rehab center is in the middle of the woods and they have deer literally 10 meters away from the benches we sat on. It’s mating season and the buck is really loud, he makes sounds non-stop and it’s really funny so i started laughing and we started talking about him and i said: “and i thought i was constantly hor*y (because i really am always ho*ny) but the buck is even ho*nier than me”. Was that too blunt? He laughed and said: “did you notice how he overdoes it? He does it so often he can barely walk”. The problem is I don't know how to flirt, i’m always either totally quiet or i say what comes to mind unfiltered and honest and i was trying to be funny. I also can’t tell when men are flirting with me. But i noticed when i’m in the gym he always gravitates to be near me and he’s always making jokes and smiles at me every time he sees me (i know he’s probably just being polite and nice to me because it’s his job). But also when he comes to the group sessions he always says: “hello everyone” and then turns to me and says hi to me separatly, so maybe he’s not just being professional? Also when i come to the group excercise in the pool he always asks me how i’m doing, but he doesn’t ask any other patients how they are doing. He really either needs to stop being so cute and sexy at the same time or ask me out on a date already.

Was my “flirting” too blunt? Is he into me?
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