Date plans but he hasn’t asked for my number?

[Anonymous]

A coworker and I (I know, don’t date coworkers, but that’s not the point of this question) and I have been flirting for a few weeks now. Today, he asked if I wanted to go see a movie with him. We stood there, picked a movie and set it for next weekend. BUT he still hasn’t asked for my number. He’s going out of town with some friends this weekend, which I don’t know if it’s relevant, but I can’t help but think it is? Is this weird or am I overthinking things?

[Abbycado]

No. He told you he had plans with friends. I’m more curious where you found a video store.

[Asker]

Sorry, guess I should have clarified, we have plans to go to the movies, like the actual movie theater lol

[Abbycado]

Oh, oh. Okay.

Well, if those plans aren’t for the weekend he is doing something, I wouldn’t worry about it.

[chenyu]

Maybe he thought his colleague was shy, haha, maybe next time

[Anonymous]

You should ask him for number, guys like it when girls take some initiative.

[Asker]

I think I might next time I see him lol I just didn’t want to seem too forward lol

[Opinion Owner]

Good luck ;)
Thanks for the MHO

[Anonymous]

You are overthinking it. You shouldn't worry until it get much closer.

[In_Trance]

Did you ask for his?

[Asker]

I thought about it, but I didn’t want to come across too forward. Especially if the reason he didn’t ask was because he’s shy. Should I have?

[In_Trance]

He's probably thinking the exact same thing

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