Is my crush actually flirting with me or am I just being delusional?

[Anonymous]

We’ve been talking for a month and he’s becoming distant but he’s found my instagram but now his friends have found it, when we chat he laughs and I’ve caught him starring at me a lot and smiling, is he flirting or is it just me being delusional?

[Cyfris]

Def not flirting.. Flirting is intentional. Checking you out sounds more like it from your description. Which could be an indicator of interest but it could be curiosity. I wouldn't read too much in to it and next time you catch him looking go say whats good?

[Asker]

Yhh thank you! 🙏

[slatyb]

Just ask him out and find out what you want to know.

[Abbycado]

Is he stealing glances?

[Asker]

I think so, I see him from the corner of my eyes

[HollyK21]

Lol anon, you aren’t as slick as you think and I say that politely. All of this “corner of my eye” watching him has been caught before. Maybe not each time but he has for sure seen it.

[Abbycado]

Best file a police report. No one likes a thief.

[Asker]

@HollyK21 I ain’t the best at flirting aha

[HollyK21]

Goodness Abby😭

[HollyK21]

@asker this is less about flirting and more about social awareness. Even if it weren’t specifically him that you’re having this whole eye exchange with, I’d still say that you have to know they see you do it at some point. It’s like that saying “if you can see them, they can probably see you”.

[Hunter-40m]

Everyone has a way of doing that only way to make sure is to ask hım directly

[whosnumber_1]

Do you post provocative pics on Instagram? If so that's why he's checking it out

[Deepinthought345]

Don't read too much into it unless he says something direct or makes a direct move

[Nikki1989]

Delusional.

[Anonymous]

Doesn’t sound distant to me

[In_Trance]

This has been going on for a month?

[MrFrenchFry]

Ask him out. That's how you will find out.