If I flirt without realizing it, does that make me a flirt?

[Marissa4]

I am at times I don't even realize at times.

[Kelly6]

@Marissa4 It still is flirt

[queenofcardio]

Yep.. you're a flirt

[Master_Debator]

Probably a flirt. I've met a lot of females that are addicted to it. Makes sense... it gets attention and women really like attention way more than most dudes have even felt before. It's easy attention as well... dudes want to fuck so they'll enguage in it even if it's not getting them closer to making her panties drop.

This "drug" habit can cause a lot of problems when you try to carry on in long term relationships. I've seen it a lot... pisses their partner off, can be pretty disrespectful to a faithful partner, and despite how much the woman thinks she can control it... it leads to "situations."

It's a nasty social habit in my opinion. It screams "attention-whore" to me everytime I run into it because I really do believe the underlying issue is the addiction to attetnion. We've all seen or have met that girl that is a total cock tease around any guy they get around just for the flirt games.

I mentioned partners already... but it could be bad for friendships as well. A lot of girls are not going to appreciate you doing that with their boyfriend or a guy they like. Just saying.

[MaddieXH]

Id say it does but that’s not a bad thing. There’s a difference between a flirt who knows what they’re doing and one who doesn’t. You keep the same energy with everyone and are just naturally attentive but not necessarily “flirting”.
How do you know you accidentally flirt? Do people point it out?

[Marissa4]

They do. And body language.

[MaddieXH]

I think if you’re not noticing then you’re just being more attentive and attuned to people but that’s being mistaken by others as straight up flirting

[OneViewpoint]

Yeah, you're still a flirt if you do it without realizing it. You're just a careless flirt. The guy on the other end of your flirting doesn't realize what's going on in your head.

Hence why I seldom take any women seriously or even engage with them. When I do, it's only for the fun of flirting with someone who can do it well. I'm never asking for her number or asking her out. It's a one time exchange to pass the time.

[FunkyMonkee]

No, it just means that you have a different understanding of what flirting is.
There's an episode of, "Roswell" where Mike, Isabel and Maria are all sitting in a diner where Maria works. Mike decides to take some of the cake under a glass dish on the counter without paying for it. Maria gets pissy with hm about it, rightfully so, and they start arguing over the cake. Suddenly, Isabel asks, "Oh my god, are you two flirting? Just what I need in my life!!".
To me, that's NOT flirting!! That's ARGUING!!

[siefert_S]

Accidentally flirting usually just means you have a naturally warm personality that people find engaging. I’ve found that as long as you maintain radical honesty and mental clarity about your intentions, you can stay a grounded sanctuary for others without sending the wrong signals. It’s all about staying authentic and making sure you’re keeping everyone’s emotional tank full in a way that feels stable and respectful.

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

• If it's not intended, then you're not a flirt.
• If it's not intended, but people see it as flirting, then you're a flirt.
• If it's intended, then you're a flirt.
• If it's intended, but people don't see it as flirting, then you're not a flirt.

That being said, as a human being surrounded by human beings, you're probably in motion as much as them, switching on and off your "flirt" status.

[Nikki1989]

I am told I am flirting all the time, so I can relate. I guess some of us are just naturally that way. I just call it being friendly.

[Alex_Bright]

It still is, and from the vibes of your profile picture you enjoy it.

[Angelo75]

yeah. Sorry.

Once you have a boyfriend/guy it tends to make things a bit complicated.

[glennos89]

You probably are but thats ff fine. Just be yourself instead of trying to be someone else

[ChicoFromThe305]

Yea, I guess it counts, not to you but others will think so

[Natasha1995]

No, you're just being friendly. But some guys will misinterpret this and see signs where there are none. It's a difficult balancing point.

[Iron_Man]

I don’t know I would have to flirt with you to find out if it’s natural or you’re playing the game

[Alex-Snow]

Perhaps but it seems like you are not doing it intentionally. Do guys seem to like it?

[Telekinetic-Potato]

That's even worse

[OlderAndWiser]

Yes, indeed!

[ZameerAnsari91]

Same here with me lol 🤣

[Shp22]

A flirt is a flirt, nothing else 😂

[WhitneySnow]

Yes lol

[jahaims]

It means you seek unhealthy validation to cope

[HairF3tish]

Well not really being natural its just that

[rapfan107]

Well yeah !! Even if you don't it unconsciously

[oldman26]

Just be yourself

[Sammy098]

Yes, you are