Men always seem to think that I flirt with them and when I deny it they don’t believe it. I never had the intention to flirt with anyone because I’m hardly interested in anyone but apparently my eyes look very flirty and seductive. Is this a thing Among girls? Am I the problem or do men just think that every friendly woman wants their dick?
Maybe… some people I know and met have said I have a flirty personality but I don’t think so lol. I think when someone is esp taken, I tried my best to be conscious to not be overly friendly. But I do think people mistaken my personality as such since I know I’m a very friendly and bubbly person cuz I am a social butterfly in real life, enjoy making people feel comfortable, and bringing in good vibes. Maybe you’re like me in this aspect where our friendly personalities are misunderstood 😂
I don't know I kind of feel like people who does have flirty personalities knows they are… cuz they like it to flirt a lot and enjoys the extra attention with that intention. That’s not my vibe, I only like flirting with people I find attractive, curious, or interested in.
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Well if a girl talks to a guy, the guy takes it as a sign that you like him, because guys do not talk to girls unless there is a reason. 1: transaction, 2: aid, 3: celebration, 4: desperation, 5: sexual attraction.
So if you talk to him, he's going to assume its one of those.
if you are desperate for attention or sexually attracted, either one of those may lead him to think that you are coming on to him.
im going to go out on a limb and assume you are coming off as desperate for attention
you probably are very sexual when you talk and its coming off that way, just basing this off what you said and my experience with women
there's not much you can about men liking you
its the way we were built
:) I find female hand gestures very attractive. If a girl makes a hand gesture to her chest when she says I, then I am pretty convinced she wants to draw my attention to her breasts.
In fact I am inclined to think all girls tapping and swiping their smart phones are being flirtatious with me.
Yes, I think your eyes could be flirty and seductive. Some girls look more directly in your eyes and some girls glance out of the side of their eye. Both would make me think Hmmh. You aren't the problem though.
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Yes you can flirt without realising it. I tend to flirt a lot, not sexually just more for a laugh or it just happens. I sometimes get myself in trouble, as I’m not interested but she is, can’t beat digging a hole lol.
People that flirt without knowing are seeking validation without knowing they are doing so because it has become a second nature coping mechanism
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yes
some r naturally flirty
Yes, definitely.
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