How can I feel more confident before approaching someone attractive?

[Anonymous]

[NathanDavis]

you can't... either you are, or you're not

so... just do it, and approach her

whatever happens, good or bad... you'll be more used to it the next time, and after some time... you will either be actually confident, or not confident at all

which one... depends on you, lol

[Levin]

Just make sure your look after yourself throughout the week with your thoughts, activities and behaviour.

Outside of that, if it's not in your DNA, you just have to fuck it and force yourself to do it. There is probably no way not to have negative thoughts before-hand.

[Nikki1989]

Most anxiety around approaching comes from framing it as a performance with a pass-or-fail outcome. You're not auditioning. You're just introducing yourself to another human being. Simple.

[queenofcardio]

Pretend that they already like you, that might help with the anxiety

[DryGermanGuy]

Buy inflatable underwear:

[Alex-Snow]

Find something to ask them to get them talking about themselves. Or compliment them on something to start a convo. Always make eye contact... and try not to stare at their boobs.

[robocop666]

are they showing interest in you?

[In_Trance]

Practice